First time can always be a challenge, you might commit some “mistakes” that when you look back in the future, you’d be like, “Ah! Why did I say/do that??” But it takes time to learn. @jjkrkwood is totally right!!
I love how insightful @JEC ’s suggestion is. I wish I had read his comment back when I first hired. You’ll develop your ways of communication and your tastes in men. And once it’s there, as I believe now, hiring is a very personal and intimate experience. Find your own preferences and enjoy the experiences.