One code, in Austin, seems to be a new, good-looking, young guy, with "visiting" or "touch my body" or "genonly" in his profile. My failsafe is hitting on someone new who truly attracts me physically, then if they respond engagingly, waiting to get asked if I'm gen. 80 percent of the time, you'll get a request for your phone number or email, which means that you're corresponding with a con artist.