I feel that if i didn't initiate the conversation then i am not responsible for tipping if i don't like them. If i like them i will take them in The back for a lapdance. There are many guys that approach start a small conversation then ask for a lap dance. If i say no thanks, some will move on, some stay and ask for a tip of which i say, sorry. Ive had other guys come up, grab my hand and put it on their bulge or under their underwear. Again if im not interested i just say no and don't tip. I didn’t ask them to do that and if i am not engaging then I'm not giving one.