rustyrex

Outdated is worse because there is an intention to deceive. I hired a guy who used pics so old I didn't think I had the right person. While he was beautiful back then, time hadn't been so kind to him and he said that he used the pic as a lure to get new clients. I was a little upset and told him the next guy may not be as forgiving. I think something must have happened because a few months later he posted pics of what he looks like currently. A guy without pics on the other hand has to work much harder to convince you he's worth the chance. No pics is already a strike, but if he has a hell of a personality and is honest about his description he will win me over enough to give him a chance.

I used to spend way more, then life threw a curve ball and now I have car payment. Now I try to budget for something more in line with massages with a perk. If I'm lucky I get a 2 for 1 special but the town I live in is so sparse of activity it seems I've hit a drought. I usually try to get away at least 3 times a year but I've had to cut back due to the car payment. Sigh.....it's way cheaper to get in my comfy recliner, get some lube and watch my favorite model or average Joe Schmoe and go till I get sleepy....

I know I’ve become a lot more selective of who I hire, this ain’t a cheap hobby. When you mix location, price, reviews, and experience it can be a bit daunting. But I still prefer hiring than hunting for a hook up on an app. That’s way more trouble to me, because let’s face it, hook ups can be more complicated than a hire. Plus I use hiring as an excuse to travel. I have absolutely no reason to travel to some of the places I’ve been. Sex is a good thing, even if it’s bad sex...but I’ve started wanting more from the experience. Some hires that are really good sense this and will put a personal touch to the experience. That’s when I know they are what I’m looking for. Its like finding a needle in a haystack, but worth the challenge.

Found this really hot guy but noticed the phone number has a couple of digits added. Is this normal for international guys? I looked the number up and it’s a Chinese phone number. The guy says he’s from Chile. https://rent.men/AlejandroLatin Any help is appreciated.

No, much much smaller....

Imagine having the guy take a shower and he still stinks....I was like damn dude how the hell does that happen? I even saw him use soap. We still had sex!

Or at least gay community. A couple weeks ago I was told by one my regular providers to go get checked for syphilis, I did that very day and results came back negative. My provider is fairly active and when I told him that I hoped my status would narrow down the list, he told me most likely it wouldn't. He told me that he was on treatment and that he was just making sure everyone he's been with is aware. I thanked him for his honesty. About a week later I told my coworker about the scare and crazily enough a few minutes later he got a text telling him to go get checked as well. I asked him if it was my same provider and he told me that it was a regular playmate that lives in another town about an hour away. Same STD. A few days later I was talking to another buddy who told me that he got a text as well. I thought "damn what is this, Outbreak?" I decided to take a little break from my hobby but I wondered if anyone in group has had the same experience?

These look like instagram models, no nudes, no real description of what they do, no more than a few pics.....hardly any reviews....yes they are fakes! These are the obvious....but some are even more deceiving because they will mix and match pics with headless shots and nudes. Watch for tats, moles, freckles, musculature, hair color on head and body, and obviously check here to see if they have been reviewed.

Parking lot of a church, one of the mega churches in town. Security guards were making rounds on the regular, it was fun and a little weird.

This guy is headed my way, got that feeling that he's either a total fake or straight guy trying to make a buck off some poor guy who is clueless. Pretty to look at but too good to be true.

Massage was pretty good, firm touch, great technique, sore afterwards but good. Very friendly, talkative if you start the conversation. Strictly therapeutic.

To think I almost put him on my list for this weekend, I don't do straight guys, if I'm paying you gotta do two things minimum that are definitely gay. If there is one look of disdain or disgust while we are going at it, the fantasy is over and I'm pretty much not going to be into it either. I've never got the allure of hiring a straight man, why bother, bisexual okay but straight? I make no illusion about what the transaction is but damn, there is a level of expectation that at minimum has be worth paying for. Telling me your not into men doesn't make me want to continue, it just tells me that you can't fulfill a minimum requirement and will probably tell me to stop when things do go as planned for you.

I know what you mean, I just reached to him and he took forever to text me back.

Once you've been doing this hobby for a while you get that 6th sense. I haven't (knock on wood) been propositioned by law enforcement. But you need to do research before you meet, in all honesty half these guys are using old pics and you need add at least 5 years to the age and 10-20 pounds to the pics. Don't worry about he cops, worry about being robbed or worse videoed without your permission. Always check the boards on here and ask the guy who posted what they are like. We are all here to help, none of us want to read that someone got taken advantage of or worse. I've been catfished numerous times but I still go along with it. Last time in PHX, I met the guy and was like "really dude...you need to update your pics" and we still had a good time. To me it's obvious when an ad seems fishy, you just feel it. The pic is of some really gorgeous guy, from some other country and there are no nudes, just maybe 1-5 pics all PG rated and a very limited description, maybe 5 words in a sentence. No phone number, no reviews, and the ad is usually up less than a week. Watch all your key words, if there is no mention of position or anything else.....it's a dud or they are straight trying to make an extra buck off you by allowing you in their presence. Some guys love throwing money out the window like that..not me....if I don't get a sense that they get naked and f___, they don't get my money. I can watch beautiful men at the gym and it cost nothing but my membership. I love eye candy!!! The last warning will be the final one and by then it's too late, if they greet you at the door and ask for the money up front and ask what you want to do, the police need those two things on tape to scoop you up. If there is no conversation of, "hello, how are you, my name is _____ lets sit and talk" be wary.... Most straight cops will be distant and probably on the other side of the room or they will have furniture between you and them. There will be no physical interaction between you and them and once they hear you say the magic words, they give the signal and it's all over. How do I know all this? I used to work for the cops.

Doing a trip Cinco de Mayo weekend...seeing between 3-4 depending on who doesn't flake.

i definitely like Jason too but he doesn't bottom so it's a pass for me. If he ever opens up for business in the rear, I'm all in.

I've seen this guy around for years on masseurfinder and at one time he had an ad on adam4adam that said he was a top. Since the new rules have changed how they advertise I hadn't seen his ads for a while. The pics are very old though, I remember them very well from at least 5 years ago.

Last time I was in Denver I reached out to him, after reading about the issues with him here I decided to pass, looks like I made the right choice.

"Alpha Male" - compared to what???? "Total Top" "Straight Acting" "Porn Star" - just because one did a home made video and put it on xtube doesn't make one a porn star "boy next door" "boy" - this one irritates the shit out of me, I like grown men, not men calling themselves boys.

This is why I can't wait for virtual reality to get better. Why waste my time and money when I can put on a headset with headphones and do the same thing for an unlimited amount of time? Any angle, position and can fast forward and rewind or pause with remote in one hand and dick in the other with the illusion of being in the same room. When technology goes even further I can say "pose in my favorite position" and the guy will do what I ask....

In the medical field we cauterize the skin to prevent it from over bleeding after an incision, the smell of human flesh being burned smells like meat on a grill. After a while of continuous cauterizing the smell makes it's way into your mouth and leaves a taste.....that is most "exotic" meat that I have ever come close to eating.

Sigh...I always get nervous looking down these types of threads, I used to be so paranoid that I would circle the hotel and search for unmarked police cars to see if they were doing a sting. You know the saying....always trust your gut. Unfortunately I've been using my real number for years and credit cards (gotta get those frequent flyer points) but after reading this I'll be more careful. Last trip I started using burner numbers....that was a surprise in itself, got really weird random texts and calls. Thanks for making me more aware.

Body builders are still my weakness, I've never gone to a show but i imagine I would be frustrated as hell staring at all that beef and not having my towel and lube handy. It's been tough to find a good body builder hire that rocks my world, but I found him and then he moved away. He was the only guy I wouldn't mind doing the whole muscle worship thing for because he would give up that ass for me any way I wanted. Damn I miss him!!!

FYI the city I was in was Denver....usually a decent spot and the guys are nice and I have a good time. The other city I almost walked away with nothing was Las Vegas, and I was warned plenty by the herd that something like that may happen. Luckily I was able to meet up with some really great guys. I almost went to Phoenix but the response to my inquiries was so bad I didn't even bother to book a room. Funny but I got a text from someone today asking if I needed some company. I told him I was already home. I should have known better with this trip too, the signs were kinda there. The ads I responded to hadn't been logged onto in weeks or they were at the very end of the page. Some didn't give phone numbers to contact, some took a really long time to respond.