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“Tell the boys in the forum if you’re so inclined,” Adam texted tonight after I left his place in NYC. (I had told him I heard about him here when he asked...) So here I am. He’s in New York for a couple of weeks but says he considers it his home base. I saw this post and the great review, looked into it, and saw that he also does yoga lessons. I’ve been looking for private yoga lessons from a hot guy who is also very serious about yoga. It’s harder to find than you’d think. Tonight, I saw Adam. He answered the door in a tight tank top and very short shorts that laced up in the front. He is cute, smooth, and very nicely toned. And, as others above said, he’s also just very authentic and genuinely nice. I felt the connection described above. The lesson was intense. I was drenched in sweat and learned a lot. He was patient, clear, and supportive. He also got handsy just enough to keep it sexy while staying focused on the yoga lesson. Afterward, he gave me a brief massage. He says he does yoga followed by a full massage, and I may be back next week for that. I can definitely see what all the fuss is about....

Nice-looking, in Chelsea, lots of pics ... but no hint of sensual aspect. Has anyone been? https://www.massagem4m.com/masseur/18096/ Thanks, guys!

How is the one in Philly?

Yes - I think it was $10 or $20 at the door. You have to go to their website beforehand and register for the event in order to go (a bit of a hassle, but not too bad).

I went once on a visit to DC a few months ago. It was better than I expected — large group of guys, all types. It’s a very small space, everyone strips naked, and men are there to play. In the main room, it’s stroking/groping only, and there’s a curtained off area where anything goes. The curtained area wasn’t too crowded — most men are there to stroke. Enjoy!

I generally am very clear up-front that I’m looking for an erotic, mutual experience involving hands-only. That kind of clarity does the trick. Only once has a massage gone further than I wanted initially. It became intense quickly, and ultimately he sat on my cock and I fucked him. But I was a willing participant, even if it pushed past my initial limits. We both got caught up in the moment and the chemistry.

Last year, I was in DC for two nights every week, and I would stay at the same hotel. I had coffee delivered from room service early every morning. After the first few weeks, I noticed that it was often the same guy bringing it — Latino, 20s, shy. He was good-looking enough, but he wasn’t drop-dead gorgeous, and I didn’t think much of him the first couple of times I saw him. I often stroke and edge a little in the morning. A couple of times, he saw that I was hard in my PJ bottoms, which I wore when I answered the door. And a couple of times, he seemed to linger for just a minute longer than he needed to. About a month after the first time I saw him, he brought the coffee, headed to the door to leave, and paused. I was hard, with a visible wet spot from edging, which I had held my hands over to cover. I moved my hands, and he was staring at my bulge. I grabbed my bulge and rubbed it, and that was all it took. He came back into the middle of the room, dropped to his knees, and sucked my cock. I came in his mouth. He quickly stood up, I thanked him, and he left. For the next few weeks, someone else brought coffee in the morning, and I thought he was embarrassed or something — until he showed up one morning at the door. Nothing happened that first time back, but every few weeks he’d deliver a BJ with my coffee. Part of what made it hot was not knowing if he was going to deliver the coffee, or if anything would happen.

There are several saunas and steam rooms in the basement. The most intense group action — sucking and stroking — was in the saunas downstairs. The exhibitionism was everywhere, with a lot of guys walking around without towels, semi-hard or hard, stroking and checking each other out.

Sorry! It’s called Russian a Snow Turkish Baths, and it’s on East 10th St in Manhattan. The men-only times and Thursday afternoon and Sunday morning to early afternoon.

I went for the first time a few weeks ago. True, it’s not the cleanest or most spacious place. But it was an exhibitionist/voyeur delight. 100+ men of all ages and types, lounging naked — and more stroking and sucking than I expected, with good group action. I went on one of their men-only times. My question is how the massages are there. I didn’t partake, but I was curious. There seem to be masseurs who wander around offering them, and then provide them in little stalls off to the side. The masseurs were beefy and rough/straight-seeming (not usually my thing). Has anyone got massages here? Any tips? (I searched through old posts, and surprisingly little shows up...) Thanks, men!

Wow - the Imperial looks fantastic.

What do you think the best kind of cockring is? What do you like to wear, and what do you like to see a guy in? I have done leather straps with buttons and a thick silicon ring, and I’ve also done a cockring that separates your balls as well. I enjoy all of them, especially for edging and stroking, and sometimes just to put on and freeball in, when I feel like showing off a little. I’ve long loved seeing older men in thick steel cockrings. Such a great look/feel...

I’ve never paid up-front. I usually fold the cash (including tip) in half and hand it to him as I’m leaving, casually, or if there’s an end table near the doorway, I’ll set it there and tell him I’m leaving it there for him, also casually. Every now and then, a masseur will unfold it in front of me and count it (and express gratitude for the good tip), and that sometimes seems a tiny bit awkward but isn’t a big deal to me. Bottom line, assuming we’ve connected and had a good time, the payment is very smooth and simple.

Hi guys — I’ve been a member here for a couple of years, mainly using the Spa section to help find good masseurs and share tips based on masseurs I’ve seen. I’ve been reading the posts more often lately, and I enjoy the mix of sex-related topics, politics, and random stuff. Here’s my question: What’s the etiquette when you see another person here whose profile intrigues you and whose posts resonate with you? There’s one guy, in particular, who intrigues me a lot. But I’ve seen several posts here complaining about people sending private messages that come across as intrusive or aggressive, which isn’t my style or my intent. How do you guys handle it when your curiosity about someone is piqued? Write to him? Lurk around “liking” his posts for a while? Thanks, in advance, for any advice/experience!

Happy birthday, NYNT!

Hi, gentlemen! Does anyone have experience with the place in 14th St and 6th Ave? They seem to do individual appointments and group massage classes/practices, in addition to other group activities (yoga, etc). I haven’t visited yet, and am wondering if the is clean/legit/good, and whether individual sessions or group sessions are better there. Thanks for any insight or tips!

No experience — but he definitely looks quite promising. Very nice body and cute face, with a hint of mischief.

Next time I’m in LA, @Rod Hagen it is! Weighing in here on the masseurs you asked about: I saw Den last year when he was on the road, and wouldn’t repeat. He is a nice guy, and he had a nice smooth/toned body, but the massage was just so-so, and he’s a little scruffier than I expected (unshaven face, untrimmed pubes, smelled of cigarettes). But very interactive. Maybe better escort than masseur? I saw Anthony a couple of months ago at his place in LA, and I recommend him highly. Very good guy, very sexy vibe, great body, nice massage room, wonderful with his hands (and more). Among the best in LA. Good luck!

Thanks @nynakedtop - appreciate the good info but sorry you had a bad experience!

Jose seems very promising. For those of you who have experience with him: Would you recommend seeing him at the spa where he works, or privately? (Feel free to PM if you prefer.) Thanks.

Seconding Jeff. He’s a little bit quirky, and he’s a smaller (height-wise) guy, but he’s genuinely sweet and sexy. He gives a good massage, has a nice body, and definitely goes the extra mile.

Gents - Visiting St Louis for a few days next week and thinking about going to BnB. Any thoughts or suggestions - best times, special nights, etc? And any guidance on VIP rules? Thanks