Well, as we can all see from this thread, opinions vary as to whether a client should leave himself open to being perceived as having low self-esteem about body issues when he first contacts an escort. What I think comes through loud and clear on this thread is:
The really excellent escorts do not need a heads up from an overweight client unless it impacts what the client's actual physical limitations might be and then perhaps, a general explanation might be in order.
Personally, as an overweight client in my senior years, who used to have an awful lot of issues with my own personal self-esteem until my very first escort (AresApollo in NYC) educated me and put me on the path of a much higher self image, I still never fail to be clear in my initial contact with a new escort that I'm "an overweight and older guy!"
That said, the best escorts never seem to have any issue with my weight or my age. I quoted JD Daniels because what he said is the absolute truth. Every time I've been with him, whether in the bedroom or out in public, he has always made me feel as if I am the hottest, most sexually desirable guy he's ever met! So far, in my almost 5 years of hiring escorts, I have found that all the best professional escorts do this, which is why I stay completely addicted to this hobby!!!
I'm a little more open on rate not bc I have more to play with, but bc I've come to terms that, to me, what matters is the experience. I've also come to the conclusion that having a few extraordinary guys is far better than gambling on the latest trend. From a companion, I expect quality at any rate, and in return, I expect myself to deliver the same quality back to my companion. Entering on equal terms makes it so much hotter! It just so happens to be that I'm the one who sponsors our time together. To me, rate is indeed a 4 letter word- a buzz kill of sorts. Once you can let go of the "rate" aspect, it frees you up to enter the experience more authentically, and frankly, focus on the joy and pleasure of each other's company. IMHO, That's worth almost any amount.
MikeyGMin reacted to TruHart1 in Would you rather overweight clients inform you about their expectations before meeting?
