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pubic_assistance's post in Do providers see when you add them to your Buddy List on RM was marked as the answer
This is a fairly common occurrence on R.M. They respond ONLY becasue they can see you browsing their profile. They can NOT see your notes or that you've buddylisted them.
Its a practical technique to follow up with someone browsing, as some potential clients can be shy, closeted, or lazy about reaching out. When a provider contacts you, it can feel like they're flirting which gives some men the confidence they need to "seal the deal" and schedule a meet.
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pubic_assistance's post in Do body parts matter when it comes to hiring? 🍆🍑body face? was marked as the answer
On this we definitely agree.
I can't begin to tell you the number of men who hit me up on Grindr, starting with a message that is nothing but a photo of a penis. I find this completely baffling. As if a dick-pic is going to entice me enough to not notice that the rest of you is (probably) pretty blah.
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pubic_assistance's post in Sensual vs Erotic was marked as the answer
Truly.
How could you NOT find a thread about this ? There must be 100 of them.
I agree with what @Michael PhDstated above.
Sensual = titillating and the possibility of you leaving happy.
Erotic = titillating and the expectation of you leaving happy.
Not advertising as an escort means you shouldn't be expecting them to be providing escort services.
I've found it most productive (if you're looking to get a truly erotic experience from a masseur) If you book an erotic session. Let them do their thing. Tip them generously and then engage in a man2man conversation afterwards about the possibility of adding other features to your next session. Doesn't hurt to ask. And a good tipper will always be given the opportunity to get to the very limits of what a provider is comfortable with, sexually.