A good boyfriend experience to my way of thinking requires paying for more of the provider's time. I love the slower seduction absent from most services, and even from gratis hookups. Clothing may not come off as quick. More time on kissing, limbs entwining and tactile exploration. And laughing (very important) The more specific consent convo continues throughout as chemistry dictates new urges.
To me, it demands a 2hr sesh, minimum, and choosing the right provider counts more than average goal-oriented sessions.