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I’m an infrequent client, and not a regular for any one provider...variety, spice, etc... I tend to let the generosity of my tip reflect the generosity of the provider whether body mind or heart. I’m not an ogre, but time has relegated my hotness to the rear view mirror. So, if the hire has lived up to ad AND makes me feel like I turned him on, he’s getting at least 15%. It goes up for excellent hosting, a safe space, an eye not obsessed with phone or clock, and for special skills (which can be interpreted in as many ways as there are providers...) Most I ever tipped was 120% - his massage and other skills were superb, set-up and service like a spa, and his rate sorta too low, I thought, for what he did to exceed my expectations. Good communication before and during, a good sense of humor, and great eye contact. I would never tip that much in a barber/salon, or a restaurant or driver. It always makes you more welcome when you return, sure. As I thank him, I try to point out why I’m being generous, so he knows how the extras improve the experience. Even if it’s a one-off, we both part better off than before.

Perhaps his moniker might serve as a heads up

I have seen him in public in the last several years (concert hall/theatre lobbies - he’s a big supporter of the arts) and even last year or so his body is still very worked out and he looked handsome and healthy. Really good-looking men his age are rare among providers, so if you are squicked out by his numerical age you simply choose from the huge number of others in his area who have less milage. I have friends who have met him socially and described him as friendly and smart, for what that’s worth

Here’s a sample of his onscreen persona from a few years ago http://www.gaybubble.com/watch/video/NDE1MDJr/TimTales-video Under the same name, he’s done some work for Club Inferno and Fisting Central that demonstrates his ...um...”internal” massage skills.

I wouldn’t be surprised if the name change between sites is less about dodging bad reviews and more about a way to prescreen the client. You call/text to David it tells him about your expectations of your meeting based on massage, if you call/text Nick he’ll know right away your expectation of the meeting is “more than massage” In the old Frontiers ads “Ask for ________”

ChadC: when I first started exploring toys I started small, and size is relative. The increase in size up to “decorative” was over years. Your sphincter is made to be elastic, and the default setting is ‘closed’. I think if I were keeping a huge plug inside for hours at a time it might result in a looseness that will take longer to go back to default - no cream will change the muscles and nerves in play there, just time. For me, getting into max stretch or depth play often leads to anal orgasm(s) in matter of minutes (it’s more intense than regular prostate stimulation - so usually I take a breather and then resume especially if I still want penile ejaculation, which by that point is literally anti-climactic. So I return to default closure within 30-40 min after play I think. I don’t push out for prolapse which is rarely for the owner of the hole anyway but more for tops (or cams) watching...

I have most of the items discussed here in one form or another I find vac pump useful only for photos, as a fluffer of sorts... E-stim can be manageable if you get it all right for your body - I started by using a prescribed post-surgical healing aid (sticky pads only) and bought attachments and adapters, then upgraded to Eros-tek box which was way better sensation Best for me is bipolar buttplug with vertical contacts- it fucks you all by itself. Pads or rings along with an e-sound can also be great. That said, it’s not a regular part of play for me. I do love my extreme insertables - my collection is large (XL...) and diverse in size, shape and material. I have brought some with me when hiring - sometimes they remain in the backpack, other times they get a better workout than I can do solo. God bless SquarePeg and Mr Hankey... along with the men who can drive me mad with them!

U-Spa bidet toilet seat = life changing for anyone who likes any sort of rear action. I can wash and rinse all my bizness (one can mount it reverse cowgirl for dickwash) if I’ve already showered, but... Even knowing I’m sparkling clean, I would neither expect nor ask a masseur for that. I have had it happen organically during a full service session, as a reciprocal offering. Props to those whose puckered charms are irresistible!

Better than average skills w bodywork. Really nice setup and service, limits massage to 60m. Look for threads in Deli section to get a bit more info on interaction. Higher rate services here: https://rent.men/Parkermatson Worth. It.

Whether paying for a high-end star or newbie, it’s the definition of investing locally. Do they need the money more than I do at the moment that I’m hungry for ... a snack? Probably.

I’m a fan of cleaning out as much as possible- it helps immensely with your confidence in relaxing the muscles Not here to peddle but this has no taste/fragrance and safe on mucous membranes My Trader Joe’s always has it and cheaper Great anywhere you need clean/neutral skin https://www.amazon.com/Trader-Joes-Nourish-All-in-one-facial-Cleanser/dp/B009DSXT80

At a spa, masseurs are employees that have to follow the house rules - allowing the client to touch may be a violation. If you are in the mood for MT and/or HE, try to find an independent contractor through any of the sites mentioned in these forum threads. I like spas - I usually get really good bodywork, and enjoy sauna steam, etc. I never go expecting to touch the masseur, or having him give me a HE. I hire that service separately. It’s a terrific fantasy that spa amenities and services will include touch and release - some posts on the forum read like letters to Penthouse. Sure, it might happen, but I think the odds are not in the client’s favor.

If you’re thinking of hiring a pro to help you open up, you should already be adept with larger toys. Experimenting on your own will be the most informative- the default setting of the muscles involved is “closed” and if you warm up and go slow, there’s every chance you’re back to normal in hours. (That said, save ‘going commando’ for a different day...?)

I haven’t added RentMasseur membership, but on Rent.Men app when you go to dashboard and turn your visibility to Off, it resets to On before you’ve finished “window shopping”. Remember, they make bulk of income from pro membership “sponsors” every month. The system may be designed to maximize escorts’ ability to pursue every lead. I haven’t found any of the contacts they’ve made (after I looked at their profile/gallery/map) to be aggressive or annoying.

I cannot speak to ? fun at any BW But at SO Spa, Josh gave an excellent, thorough deep tissue session (80m), is friendly and easy on the eyes... though mine were cIosed mostly. I was there early May and there were some renovations going on, which may be over with. I will request him next time I go for sure.

https://erotic-hypno.com/ I believe he had a RM profile, which I noticed when he traveled west to CA a couple years ago... Can’t seem to locate that but his own site still valid. I am getting very... sleepy... Maybe someone has tried him?

I had heard that sexy daddy Adam Russo https://rent.men/adamrusso was pursuing legit acting Saw him this evening on premiere of Netflix series “Special” as a physical therapist. Credits not on IMDB yet But he was up to par, in a funny, new and unusual story (with some of the most realistic gay sex I’ve seen depicted) Adam’s character not in that scene. Good luck Adam!

Sometimes that fabulous steak dinner costs more because the meat is perfect... and sometimes it’s just due to higher overhead. ? Either way it may result in more evenings at home, re-warming my own sausage. ;-)

Yes yes yes. It’s definitely hotter than spotting a hired guy girling out over yarn with his mother at Michael’s (yup that happened).

If you’re still lookin, I think you should check out Parker located in Van Nuys https://rent.men/ParkerMatson His massage set-up is great, bodywork skills WAY above most, and spa-like service (do spas even send an attendant to wrap you in a warm towel after showering?) His RM ad will tell the rest. He’s warm and kind too. PM if any Q’s

Looking in LA area for escort who is like (non-hirable) porn actor Adam Killian https://g.co/kgs/Buk5ak Dark, Beefy/ thick, hairy, (more man than boy) Fun and hungry, a total show off Any pro’s out there I should be aware of? Interested only in recs based on exp as I can find several who match the physical look - it’s the fun/dirty attitude and engagement in person to go with the ...real estate Thx

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/5356/ Erik (in Weho) very good masseur - I like deep pressure and he accommodated a couple limitations I have, and though he offers full service, I have found his solid technique and excellent HE to be really satisfying. More attractive in person, very sweet nature.

Fun game! In LA there are lots of men available (pret-a-porte!) with perfect parts... Its humor and intellect in short supply, both of which are BIG turn-on's to me - so if one splurges on the delicacies not within easy reach... A three-way with John Krasinski and Stephen Colbert

I have been attracted to older men always - but as it's relative, eventually "older men" are just old - lol, ( I say this as An Old, myself) I am never drawn to boys, but that doesn't mean I might not consider hiring a lad below 30 sometime. I think it is a bit overwhelming when scrolling thru all the ads (LA environs) - that sometimes our preconceived ideas for "filtering and sorting" can prevent us from imagining the whole person as opposed to a collection of stats and buzzwords that meet criteria we imagine will yield The Orgasm to End All Orgasms... We all hire because we yearn for physical contact with a type of man that is different from the man/men who are interested in having sex with us for a free drink. I love the variety on display - I don't hire often, and when I am looking to set a meet-up, the only "no go's" are behavioral ( pnp / unsafe) rather than physical. Rarely disappointed.

Anybody have experience with Ron? https://rentmasseur.com/ArabianMassuer