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You would think someone @ AnalEaze Marketing would have come up with a better name for this product! Something less obvious...I'm seriously thinking of starting a new thread on renaming this product. How about...burnbegone or open-sesame or gate-to-heaven?

There's really a product called "AnalEaze"? Is there a discreet way I can ask for it at Walmart?

See, it takes Rudy to wake me up from my bottom stupor! I should also have asked for a listing of studs that can handle A born- again bottom. Also, come think of it, Wolfer, starting with you...I want the name of that blow-my-socks-off-flip-me-on-my-tummy-work-my-neck/back&ass Latino stud muffin.

Truth, Adam. My first time was at 72!! I am now determined to get fucked at least one time for each year of my life. That leaves about 68 more moments of ecstasy. If my heart can't take it, just think of the smile I'll be wearing when the coroner comes.

I'd clean out and go back to the hot stud that made you want it so bad. He sounds like a keeper. Just make sure he knows you're a beginner.

Soap and rectal tissue are a bad combination. For a clean-out douche nothing beats lukewarm water, but use a good lube before inserting whatever you are using to douche with.
It's surprising that the lube burned you, a good lube should feel wonderful, not painful. Perhaps a different brand?
When I was getting started an little anesthetic ointment like "AnalEaze" made all the difference...but just for use with dildos. Using it with a partner reduces your partner's sensation (and pleasure) as well!
And don't forget some deep relaxing breaths as well. It's meant to be FUN, and if you give it time and a little patience you will be enjoying one of the great pleasures of man to man sex...

I'll leave the detailed advice-giving to others, and will only suggest that rather than FORAY into bottoming, it is always best to SASHAY into it.

Oh no, not another thread about bottoming! Ah, but I've done my research... poured hours over the various threads and posts on the forum here, dating all the way back the beginning of the previous decade.
 
So this is more of a sharing of experience and also some request for talking about how and what I felt and how I can move forward.
 
So I've never really enjoyed bottoming up until now. When I was with my ex-husband, I bottomed a few times but we naturally evolved to him being the bottom and me being the top. We were also each other's first and only until we seperated after thirteen years.
 
Since then I've topped exclusively with the guys I've been with and I absolutely love it. I get rock hard, love to ease myself into a guy while being attentive to his needs.
 
BUT! AH! Something happened yesterday! I was having amazing blow-your-socks off sex with a beefy latino until suddenly he flips me onto my stomach, lays himself on top of me and starts to work my neck, back and ass in such ways I was in pure ecstasy. Before I knew it I had my ass up in the air and a desire to get fucked by him took hold of me. I ultimately didn't, because I hadn't douched and also hadn't bottomed in a couple of years. But it had opened me up (pun intended) to become versatile and try bottoming.
 
So try I did! Having read all the wonderful threads here on the advice to prepare yourself I did just that: I douched, put on some hot porn, lubed up my ass, played with myself, took out a tiny (about 3") dildo and started working myself.
 
First thing: my anus burned. But it already started burning when I used the lube, long before I put anything up there. It also burns when I use soap. This is such a mood killer. When I was gently pushing the dildo in, the burning sensation intensified. So while the idea of getting fucked was a turn-on, almost all of the physical sensations were a mood killer, especially the burning.
 
I've read that the burning sensation might be because the muscles are being forced, but that doesn't explain the burning already starting when just putting lube on it.
 
I'm not a quitter so I pushed the dildo in completely and it flopped back out again a couple of times. But I kept at it and I'm certain I hit my prostrate because I immediately came uncontrollably while my whole body was awash with ecstasy, even after cumming physically the ecstasy remained until I pulled the dildo out. That moment did override any of the physical discomfort.
 
So in conclusion: I was a bit dissappointed that the discomfort was so big. But I'm willing to try it again. But there has to be something that I can do about the burning, because it completely, totally destroys the mood. Pain is a complete and utter turn-off for me.
 
I also hit a wall with just the 3" dildo. So what can be done about that? Work my way up to bigger?

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