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...wonder what Fishtix and breadcrumbs mean

...wonder what Fishtix and breadcrumbs mean

I think so according to his signature that just popped up
 
Or one could just click here: http://rentmen.com/BigRic

Thanks, Asmith...perfect clip for my transatlantic flight tomorrow

I'm a little more open on rate not bc I have more to play with, but bc I've come to terms that, to me, what matters is the experience. I've also come to the conclusion that having a few extraordinary guys is far better than gambling on the latest trend. From a companion, I expect quality at any rate, and in return, I expect myself to deliver the same quality back to my companion. Entering on equal terms makes it so much hotter! It just so happens to be that I'm the one who sponsors our time together. To me, rate is indeed a 4 letter word- a buzz kill of sorts. Once you can let go of the "rate" aspect, it frees you up to enter the experience more authentically, and frankly, focus on the joy and pleasure of each other's company. IMHO, That's worth almost any amount.

RJ,Despardo is a gentleman, so I bet you he meant it as a compliment! I know I would.

Couple years later...
 
...either this...
 
http://movieboozer.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Long_Term_Relationship_Barbie.jpg
 
...or this!

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http://www.glamour.com/images/sex-love-life/2015/03/hot-dudes-with-dogs-main.jpg
 
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http://barkpost.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/tumblr_ne1vvsIdfJ1rpltdio1_500.jpg
 
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http://gizmodiva.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/dogs-instagram-2.jpg
 
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http://cdn.styleblazer.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/hot_dudes_with_dogs_instagram7.jpg
 
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http://cdn-img.people.com/emstag/i/2013/pets/news/130923/lucky-dog-600.jpg

I hope you like this video about the elves having fun when Santa's gone.
 
 
http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1587069749
 
 

My holidays won't be complete until I get the uncensored video card!

Hmmmm....Funny how we all read into text differently. I took Kurtis' comments more as informational than defending his rates. Frankly, I don't think the guy needs to defend anything. Personally, I really enjoy the perspective our companions add to the forum.

I'm a little more open on rate not bc I have more to play with, but bc I've come to terms that, to me, what matters is the experience. I've also come to the conclusion that having a few extraordinary guys is far better than gambling on the latest trend. From a companion, I expect quality at any rate, and in return, I expect myself to deliver the same quality back to my companion. Entering on equal terms makes it so much hotter! It just so happens to be that I'm the one who sponsors our time together. To me, rate is indeed a 4 letter word- a buzz kill of sorts. Once you can let go of the "rate" aspect, it frees you up to enter the experience more authentically, and frankly, focus on the joy and pleasure of each other's company. IMHO, That's worth almost any amount.

I'm a little more open on rate not bc I have more to play with, but bc I've come to terms that, to me, what matters is the experience. I've also come to the conclusion that having a few extraordinary guys is far better than gambling on the latest trend. From a companion, I expect quality at any rate, and in return, I expect myself to deliver the same quality back to my companion. Entering on equal terms makes it so much hotter! It just so happens to be that I'm the one who sponsors our time together. To me, rate is indeed a 4 letter word- a buzz kill of sorts. Once you can let go of the "rate" aspect, it frees you up to enter the experience more authentically, and frankly, focus on the joy and pleasure of each other's company. IMHO, That's worth almost any amount.

I'm a little more open on rate not bc I have more to play with, but bc I've come to terms that, to me, what matters is the experience. I've also come to the conclusion that having a few extraordinary guys is far better than gambling on the latest trend. From a companion, I expect quality at any rate, and in return, I expect myself to deliver the same quality back to my companion. Entering on equal terms makes it so much hotter! It just so happens to be that I'm the one who sponsors our time together. To me, rate is indeed a 4 letter word- a buzz kill of sorts. Once you can let go of the "rate" aspect, it frees you up to enter the experience more authentically, and frankly, focus on the joy and pleasure of each other's company. IMHO, That's worth almost any amount.

I've paid 300, even 400, and I've paid 150. Once again it bears repeating, price does not necessarily equal quality of services rendered. Many would like you to believe otherwise, but the facts are irrefutable....http://www.boytoy.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/yes.gif

Even with all the help from this forum and exhaustive research, a first date with an escort is a crapshoot- it may be great, or it may be "bleh". That being said, I would be unwilling to risk over $300/ hr on a toss of the dice with a new escort. Right now I have two favs who are very different but equally satisfying to fuck. I would love to branch out, but with my limited finances. I don't want to roll snake eyes.
 
When I go to Baskin Robbins, I always consider the "bubblegum, nectarine surprise" or whatever is the flavor of the month, but end up with good, old, delicious rocky road, instead. I do love me some nuts and cream!

Nice trunks

Great perspectives! And it would make a lot of sense if you were not being paid for your time.
 
To me, it seems the OP is saying...I paid for your time, I told you what I expected (sorta), and I even enhanced the experience, and yet I'm not getting what I want. With much respect to the human side of companions, if they prefer to pull out or don't like to cum in a condom, they should decline the OP bc they either can't perform it or prefer not to. Then the OP has a chance to decide if he still wants to continue booking.
 
I think it does go back to the original responses...in my opinion, either the OP is hiring the wrong companion or he is getting (consciously or unconsciously) duped by those who accept & end up pulling out. Excuses notwithstanding , it does not honor the requirement.
 
PS- is anyone else feeling a little frisky after reading nycman's response ?

+1 on lrtwo's comment

Clarity: the mother of getting whatcha want. Personally, when I want something very specific, I don't add complicating layers....no dinner, no chit-chat, no worrying about my own suitability. I focus my companion on the task at hand and then reward him with all of the above (except for the self doubt bc I know I'm perfectly imperfect).
 
Now, any professionals (not necessarily clients) out there care to chime in with their view of this cum-in-my-ass dilemma?

Good points made! The crux of the matter is that hinting at what you want is not enough. It is imperative to make your wishes crystal clear as a client. The advantage of being clear upfront is that the ball is then on the companion's court. A companion with a shred of integrity who is not sure it can happen should say " I can't promise that." Then the ball is back on the OPs court.
 
My angle on this is integrity...companions are the expected professionals...they have a responsibility to educate their client on what to expect or not. If the client's request is something that can't be guaranteed, the companion needs to help his client understand. Frankly, I think a companion who enters an engagement not necessarily knowing they can perform the request is actually treating himself as an automaton and he is treating his client to a whole bunch of confusion.

Good points made! The crux of the matter is that hinting at what you want is not enough. It is imperative to make your wishes crystal clear as a client. The advantage of being clear upfront is that the ball is then on the companion's court. A companion with a shred of integrity who is not sure it can happen should say " I can't promise that." Then the ball is back on the OPs court.
 
My angle on this is integrity...companions are the expected professionals...they have a responsibility to educate their client on what to expect or not. If the client's request is something that can't be guaranteed, the companion needs to help his client understand. Frankly, I think a companion who enters an engagement not necessarily knowing they can perform the request is actually treating himself as an automaton and he is treating his client to a whole bunch of confusion.

Good points made! The crux of the matter is that hinting at what you want is not enough. It is imperative to make your wishes crystal clear as a client. The advantage of being clear upfront is that the ball is then on the companion's court. A companion with a shred of integrity who is not sure it can happen should say " I can't promise that." Then the ball is back on the OPs court.
 
My angle on this is integrity...companions are the expected professionals...they have a responsibility to educate their client on what to expect or not. If the client's request is something that can't be guaranteed, the companion needs to help his client understand. Frankly, I think a companion who enters an engagement not necessarily knowing they can perform the request is actually treating himself as an automaton and he is treating his client to a whole bunch of confusion.

I've wondered if there is someone with multiple personality disorder with different handles taunting others and keeping the threads going! The angel, the antagonist, the bitch, the hot boy everyone wants but no one has met, the writing diarrhea guy...all one person. Spooky. Of course, that's just my conspiracy theory disorder kicking in

yes and his heart was going like mad and yes I said yes I will Yes.