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  1. Love the idea. Can you let the more timid among us know how you went about propositioning him? Aren't terms like 'generous' verboten on Grinder?

    Not ideal to write in profiles, though I'm seeing it more and more lately... it's usually okay in conversation! If I see a boy I like I just message a compliment and ask if he's open to meeting generous guys. The answer nowadays, at least in NYC, seems more and more to be yes. And then the negotiations begin :) have had a lot of success tapping the amateur market

  2. Love the idea. Can you let the more timid among us know how you went about propositioning him? Aren't terms like 'generous' verboten on Grinder?

    Not ideal to write in profiles, though I'm seeing it more and more lately... it's usually okay in conversation! If I see a boy I like I just message a compliment and ask if he's open to meeting generous guys. The answer nowadays, at least in NYC, seems more and more to be yes. And then the negotiations begin :) have had a lot of success tapping the amateur market

  3. Love the idea. Can you let the more timid among us know how you went about propositioning him? Aren't terms like 'generous' verboten on Grinder?

    Not ideal to write in profiles, though I'm seeing it more and more lately... it's usually okay in conversation! If I see a boy I like I just message a compliment and ask if he's open to meeting generous guys. The answer nowadays, at least in NYC, seems more and more to be yes. And then the negotiations begin :) have had a lot of success tapping the amateur market

  4. I got a substantial interest in my messages after posting about meeting a smooth tight twink bottom in NYC off of Grindr who met up for a “generous” arrangement. I wonder if we might create a thread to share finds with each other that aren’t necessarily from the standard ad sites. I find many young gents are willing to make themselves available these days but don’t want to go the rentmen route per se.

  5. I got a substantial interest in my messages after posting about meeting a smooth tight twink bottom in NYC off of Grindr who met up for a “generous” arrangement. I wonder if we might create a thread to share finds with each other that aren’t necessarily from the standard ad sites. I find many young gents are willing to make themselves available these days but don’t want to go the rentmen route per se.

  6. I got a substantial interest in my messages after posting about meeting a smooth tight twink bottom in NYC off of Grindr who met up for a “generous” arrangement. I wonder if we might create a thread to share finds with each other that aren’t necessarily from the standard ad sites. I find many young gents are willing to make themselves available these days but don’t want to go the rentmen route per se.

  7. There’s a coterie of high end escorts (incidental pun) who travel Asia spending a week or so in Singapore, Kuala Lumpur, Bangkok, Hong Kong, Shanghai, etc. often out of Dubai.

    Where do you encounter these boys?

  8. As I am well into middle age and have hired more than occasionally, and I should know better, but....

     

    My favorite experiences are with guys who can really seem to be into it, who act like they actually like me and are happy to hang out afterwards and chat and cuddle. The genuine BFE. I am amazed at how often I start to mistake a $$ transaction for friendship of some sort.

     

    I've just recently been reminded that, however convincing the act is, at the end of the day it is just an act, and our experience is, for him at least, ultimately a transaction. Time is money, and rates are rates, and he wouldn't even be talking to me if I wasn't paying him. That can be tough to remember. To be clear, that is not a complaint or a criticism of any particular pro - they are literally doing their jobs LOL -- but is more an observation about myself: how an ordinarily hard-minded businessman can be completely disarmed by a young, well-hung, sweet and friendly guy who is willing to fulfill my fantasies for a short time.

     

    Does that happen to others, or am I just a ridiculously naïve romantic?

    The twink I recommended you turned out to be a delightful BFE I think because he’s so new and getting used to meeting generous gentlemen. Was precious. I just remember thinking while looking into his eyes while pumping him he had the look of “please love me”

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