I use masseurfinder if I was am looking for more of a therapeutic massage (which many times I've been surprised), if I see them also on rent masseur I expect some sort of extras. I also double check and look at rent men to see if this is going to lead to more of an escort experience or erotic massage. At leases this way I can communicate with them what I am looking for and not offending a "true" therapist. BUT this doesn't always turn out that way. Once on masseur finder this guy insisted it was truly therapeutic, it started out that way. When I turned over he was nude, hard and ready to suck. So you never know.