biggerbilly

I'd choose the bottom, but only because I want a bottom version of Kerry Slate. The beard plays no part.

But, and this is my point exactly, while obviously there are going to be exceptions or extreme cases, the best escorts working now-and again I'll use for an example @Mikegaite since he is the one I know the best, but I could probably also mention Kristian (if he is still escorting)- and those escorts of blesséd memory which we on the Forum still reminisce about fondly such as Dirk from Man to Man or Alec Andrews (and notice I didn't mention Alec's partner Ryan. Ryan was a nice guy but from my experience with him probably only really performed well if Alec were present or if he felt some attraction for the client), could promise fairly effortless encounters for the majority of their clients. Could I do it if I had the looks, physique, and tallywacker to be an escort, but were otherwise the same? HECK NO!! But that's why not every handsome well-endowed guy can be an escort.
 
And the only reason I am commenting is the same reason I had when Rex B used to praise certain escorts. The escorts he liked, he praised to high heaven. But the majority of them weren't full service, and many probably required the elusive "chemistry" to perform well. But if people hadn't read (what this is turning out to be) long, involved threads, or had prior knowledge derived from other threads they very possibly might have totally unrealistic expectations for their encounter leading to disappointment. And as you mentioned previously, @Gymowner this is an expensive hobby. While I have no direct knowledge, my impression is that Hooboy started the review site and the forum to make encounters less nebulous for the benefit of both clients and escorts.
 
Goan

Give me the cheap stuff! Especially if it’s strong! Lol.
 
Seriously, post like this kind of get on my nerves. It’s the idea that the more expensive something is, the better it is. If you like Ryan, great! And for many, muscle worship is enough, and he is a perfect fit. But the idea that because some of use want certainty, we cannot handle the game? No, there’s a difference between playing a game, and not wanting to be played. That’s kind of why this board exist.
 
Why bother asking about providers, when you can just roll the dice? And if you have a bad experience, but enough money, why hire them again. Maybe if you build trust, things will be better next time.

I know Wklucas' comment about Spencer was meant to be snarky, but it perfectly illustrates white privilege.
 
He can go "call on" pretty much any provider when he wants to. For myself and certain others, the very first thing I do is ask them "are you okay with clients of my ethnicity."
 
If the reply is no, we spare ourselves an uncomfortable in-person rejection. If the reply is yes, it can still create a dynamic where the patron still feels "less than" because he had to ask in the first place. But in my experience, better to check than get rejected.
 
Must be nice if you don't have to think or deal about such things.
 
Anyway, I digress. If anyone knows tops -- particularly African American ones -- who don't have any racial requirements and are legit (I ask this because a number have been identified on this board as using fake pics), the recommendations would be appreciated.

Give me the cheap stuff! Especially if it’s strong! Lol.
 
Seriously, post like this kind of get on my nerves. It’s the idea that the more expensive something is, the better it is. If you like Ryan, great! And for many, muscle worship is enough, and he is a perfect fit. But the idea that because some of use want certainty, we cannot handle the game? No, there’s a difference between playing a game, and not wanting to be played. That’s kind of why this board exist.
 
Why bother asking about providers, when you can just roll the dice? And if you have a bad experience, but enough money, why hire them again. Maybe if you build trust, things will be better next time.

In my humble opinion, I'd prefer not to waste my time doing that. I mean sure every situation is different. But in general I'd like to know what the escort is generally into from his ad. I hate ads with very little info and 'Ask Me-s' on the important info categories. I don't mind confirming information that is listed in the ad. In fact I highly recommend doing that in case the the guy is one of those escorts that blindly checked every option in the world to appeal to the widest client base without ever planning to fulfill the majority of what he had listed. But I am not into guys who base everything they are willing to do on the nebulous factor of chemistry. That's too much work for me.
 
I'm reminded of a Forum Member, although I can't remember who it was now, who liked finding non-professionals off Backpage or Craig's List. He enjoyed the thrill of the chase. That never really appealed to me because when I was horny, I wanted someone then. I didn't want to have to cultivate someone over weeks.
 
Don't get me wrong. I'm glad you guys like Ryan. And I understand his physicality is incredible. But you could never really say that he is a "top" tier escort (in my humble opinion) no matter what his talents are because most top tier escorts are usually a lot more forthright in their ads and seem to be able to generate chemistry (or fake it extremely convincingly) with the majority of their clients. So when I think of someone top tier, it would be someone like @Mikegaite or the recently retired Alec Andrews-guys who are/were known to be able give stellar experiences to almost every client.
 
Gman

And that’s why I avoid hiring straight men. They’ll say anything to get you in the door, then forget the conversation. Unlike a gay guy. If he says he takes it up the butt, he’ll take it up the but!
 
 
 
***now just sit back and wait for @Gymowner to reply ***

No......
 
I expect them to take the subway for $2.75....like I do.

While I know this from prior reports, it would probably be helpful to the newer guys on the Forum if y'all would mention that as great as Ryan is, he is not (what is generally known as) a full service escort. You'd be doing a solid to both newcomers on the Forum and to Ryan himself because it will hopefully cut down on guys contacting him and looking for things he doesn't offer.
 
Gman

Are people still using the, “some of my best friends are _______” excuse. If you’re going to say this now a days, don’t put up an Instagram account, where we can see all of your friends. I guess friends are people in the entertainment industry now. “How can I be racist, I listen to Beyoncé!”

He could come out and say it on his profile, it would save a lot of us some time. what do you think it is when he tells the asians he does not want them as clients because they are asians, is that not discrimination, so discrimination is discrimination, whether you put it on your ad, or tell them to their face or on the phone, I rather he be up front and put it on his ad, it will save him and all of us asians lots of time and anguish.

https://rentmen.eu/Russ_NYC
 
I had great fun with him when I hired him a while ago. As someone not into muscular beast, he’s now too big for me, but probably perfect for you!

I’m pretty sure he put that there to piss me off.
 
 
Lol, not really. I’m going to assume that he likes to be rimmed. Plus, from my experience there are many total bottoms that love butts. Hell, women love guys with a nice butt.
 
I wish he would clarify that he only tops in his RentMen profile. I still don’t like the Verse/top option. If you use it, at least explain it!

I’m pretty sure he put that there to piss me off.
 
 
Lol, not really. I’m going to assume that he likes to be rimmed. Plus, from my experience there are many total bottoms that love butts. Hell, women love guys with a nice butt.
 
I wish he would clarify that he only tops in his RentMen profile. I still don’t like the Verse/top option. If you use it, at least explain it!

I find it funny how very few pornstars threads ever lead to anyone replying that they hired them. Usually, the guys that are talked about are the ones who do porn second. I know that the ability to do porn and to escort are different. And some guys are bad at it. But, I’m suprised by how few seem to try and hire.
 
Am I the only one to notice this?

Hmmm, outright B.O. or is he one of those guys into creating a man scent type deal. I know for some there is no difference, lol.

I prefer showered men too, lol. I don’t mind someone being deodorant free, or being sweaty. I draw the line here.

I find it funny how very few pornstars threads ever lead to anyone replying that they hired them. Usually, the guys that are talked about are the ones who do porn second. I know that the ability to do porn and to escort are different. And some guys are bad at it. But, I’m suprised by how few seem to try and hire.
 
Am I the only one to notice this?

Why would closeted billionaire form a society? Doesn’t doing that kind of out you? Here’s the thing @tradehunter, I’m sure there are rich gay middle eastern men who pay big money for top clients. But I doubt there’s a secret society.
 
But let’s say there is one, why are you asking about it here? I doubt there are many members on this forum who are closeted gay middle easterner billionaires. But if there are, why are they wasting their time here and not talking to other members of their society?
 
If you want to find out if this place exists, do the following:
 
1. Become a billionaire
2. Move to the Middle East
3. Hang out with closeted gay men.
4. Ask one of them where they get there boytoys in a very sneaky, secret way (try blinking and various types of handshakes)
5. Don’t get stoned to death (this is the most important step)

Side effects of steroids and obsessions with being as big as possible. I wish guys goals were to as fit as possible instead, IE healthy.

If you’re not interested in escorts, maybe you shouldn’t be posting in the escort section of the forum. What you’re interested in seems more suited for Street Scenes: https://www.companyofmen.org/forums/street-scenes.35/

If I could 'like' this a thousand times, I would.
 
Being fit is very different than having muscle: People mistake going to the gym for having a healthy lifestyle. In addition to a wide variety of exercise (weights, cardio, stretching), healthy isn't tanning yourself to death, smoking, drugs, etc.
 
You are stuck with your body for a long, long time. Be good to it.

Side effects of steroids and obsessions with being as big as possible. I wish guys goals were to as fit as possible instead, IE healthy.

Side effects of steroids and obsessions with being as big as possible. I wish guys goals were to as fit as possible instead, IE healthy.

Side effects of steroids and obsessions with being as big as possible. I wish guys goals were to as fit as possible instead, IE healthy.