HotWhiteThirties

Unless there are some details left out to suggest otherwise, this provider is a total asshole. How is this your problem? Just cause you're gay doesn't mean you inspect the assholes of all your gay friends prior to making a recommendation for who fucks them. Seems it would fall under the category of potential "hazards" of the profession that are sometimes encountered. Further, to discuss the encounter with you in the way it is described puts you in an awkward position and is childish. Grow up and handle your business with the "offending" partners and leave others out of it. Does he expect you to address the issue? Again...awkward. That said, hemorrhoids suck, and can happen to anyone - in shape and attractive or otherwise. And now thanks to this provider you know this detail about your friend and can have that thought In the back of your mind when you chat with him in the future. I say this as someone who is not currently suffering a hemorrhoid. 😜

Seems like that libido of yours is quite a roller coaster ride, @Merboy . Up and down...loops...abrupt stops. 🤣🤣🤣 Good luck!

Sounds like one of those things where I'd be more interested in being a voyeur. Way past the age and looks for it (20s are well in the review mirror)...oh and I'm not into meth, but yeah...seems like something I'd wanna watch - perhaps with a friend or two - from the corner of the room with a stiff drink in hand and stay out of the way otherwise.

Good point. I don't think it's all one way or the other though. There are some important reasons and worthwhile ones to setting up a trust with such parameters. Hopefully one is leaving such resources to heirs they have invested and spent time knowing. In my case, the love I have for my children will have been declared and known in my life with them and hopefully the testimony of that will not stand solely in what I leave behind or how I leave it. What is left to them, I hope, will be a blessing and not a curse. The truth is, it is far more likely in my observation, that it can be a curse without some thought into how the trust is set up. So, while your points are certainly very valid, and certainly don't wish to equate worth with income, we do live in a society where income generation is important for survival...and that is certainly a skill that I want my children and heirs to have incentive to develop. Thanks for your insights, though, they help balance the thought process I am having.

I like this concept. The trust I have set up for my heirs releases as they age, but eventually releases the principle to them once they reach middle age. The idea of a match of their income as an alternative or as part of the parameters is an idea for consideration. I may be making some changes. 🤔

I pledge allegiance!

Ha! Not on the level with the specimens displayed herein, but thanks, dude! And keep up the excellent "sharing!" I'm definitely an ass man and enjoying the scenery! 😜Kudos!

@Muscle Lover 2, you're prolific with these pics. That's not a complaint.

@RadioRob, this post by @liubit underscores the potential need for a "wow" emoji. I gave "applause," which I am so fond of and CERTAINLY appropriate in this instance, but my more accurate and genuine reaction was one of amazement and admiration! 😁🤣😁🤣

Survey says....YES!!! 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻

Yeah. I caught the disclosure that the responses would be public when I completed it. That startled me at first, TBH, but then I didn't see it easily displayed. So, I poked around and figured out how.

Says it was @jawjateck! The Champion!!!! 😁

Thanks much, @JoeMendoza!!! I'll take all of the guys in this picture! 😜😁😘 EDIT: But why you hafta go off and do all the math and calculate that age, bro? 🤦‍♂️🤣🤣🤣

Y'all make it sound so easy!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Interesting. With so many choices/potential responses, however, the results are really hard to take in on a mobile device- which is the only way I access the forum. Admittedly, there aren't many responses yet, though.

I was accused of the "verbose" offense most recently on a post which was comprised of only three sentences total. I was puzzled based on the commonly held definition of "verbose." Then, I decided to take it as a compliment that my words, no matter how few, were so overwhelming to the offended member. 😜🤣🤣🤣 In another instance, the accusation was made by a member whose overall post count is in the 5 digits (tens of thousands), and whose individual posts are of significant length on many occasions. I found that to be ironic. Sometimes I think people also hit that reaction if they don't like what you are saying. Certainly their right to do so. Or, maybe like @Charliesuggested, they think of the reaction to be "wow" based on how it looks. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I have had a provider let me know when he was coming into a nearby city. That was appreciated. What wasn't appreciated was him using a phone number that I explicitly and repeatedly asked him NOT to use...even after providing an alternative phone number. (Rookie mistake, admittedly!) As for why, well, obviously they are in a "sales" business of sorts. Prospecting from past clients where there was an enjoyable connection in some way. It could be the client was respectful, generous, consistent, followed-through, personally enjoyable to be around, or even attractive. I think in most cases, though, it's a business transaction. Nevertheless, I do transactions that are business related with people whom I actually like and care about. Like I said, it's preferred and more enjoyable for all. I still have to charge for my work, though. Even if Iike them a lot.

This is my go-to length. Just enough!

How academic. I've never tried weed, and have not ever really studied it, though I am curious. I love poppers, though, and whiskey and vodka. Your input is very insightful. I'll do more study...hopefully hands on. 😜😈😁

I understand the medical profession's desire to know all things - mostly for altruistic reasons - but I'm sorry, the individual person's rights to privacy, in spite of the risks that might create, should prevail. That may frustrate a physician, but their perceived "need to know" should always be checked, IMO, by the desires of the individual's rights and intentions. If the patient doesn't want them to know every medication they take, then for better or worse, that should be up to the patient. The attitude that "someone else knows better," is a slippery slope. Of course, so much of this lack of privacy, is encouraged by insurance companies who make all of this data available to all. And the individual patients simply comply and allow their privacy rights to be signed away in something akin to a "terms of service agreement," that few read and ultimately waive the privacy they think they are being afforded.

Is he cross-eyed? I don't mean that to be funny. None of the pics were head-on that I accessed, and got the impression that he might be. Either way, I agree he's attractive.

Please excuse this divergence, but I couldn't help but recognize what I presume to be a fitting nod to Patricia Routledge and her genius portrayal of Hyacinth Bucket in "Keeping Up Appearances." A wonderful gift from across the pond to the world! A BritBox subscription allowed me to revisit many of those episodes. Now, on topic. I have a lot of things I'd like to see or accomplish on a bucket list...mostly related to travel or future charitable giving, but other things too. I haven't committed them to a formal list, though. Perhaps I should. Travel-wise, I would like to set foot on all continents including Antarctica, and as I love cruising, a cruise that circumnavigates the globe if I can make it to retirement and have the time and resources and health to do it. I had on my bucket list for health to get fit and in a shape that *might* turn a head or two before I got too old...I still have more to do on that front, but it's been so very fulfilling and I have made progress. I want to be in a position to establish a scholarship at my alma mater for students who lose a parent or close family member to suicide. That may seem quite specific, but it's part of my story, and those who are impacted by it are marked forever. It's a mark I have endured and been shaped by. Other things of course. These are a few.

What a wonderful gift and experience. I have always valued my travels over other things money might buy because of the experiences. Great story! Thanks for sharing and would love a visit!

You sorta lost me at travel allowance as a 19 year old! Never had my parents provide anything of the sort. 🤣🤣🤣 Wonder how that would have felt like when I was 19? Won't ever know, as that was not my lot in life, but what a fantastic experience! Even if your parents did pull the plug on that. As a parent, I would definitely pull the plug on such a proposal from my kids! 😜

Just a few advantages. Nothing to write home about, right? 😉