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that's not what i asked. not wanting the therapist to upsell you isn't being cheap. i'm happy to pay the cost and leave a generous tip without prompting. so if anyone has an actual recommendation, please post here or dm. but there's no need to take a jab at me for asking.

not true. being touched in a sensual way by a masseur isn’t the same as having sex. anyone on this site knows that.

if you wanted a straight up sensual/ erotic experience with a friendly guy, without expectation of therapeutic benefit, and didn’t have a strong preference about the masseur’s appearance, but hated upselling, who would you see?

Does anyone know any NYC masseurs (or spas) who can provide a massage receipt in a form that’s acceptable for FSA or HSA? It’s not a complicated receipt, but the masseur would need to be comfortable providing his name and contact info. Maybe 1 or 2 on rentmasseur mention insurance, so I’m sure that they can provide, but curious to know about others.

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there are a bunch. i've tried most of them over the years. it sort of depends what style you like. personally, i like when there's a veneer of instruction and legitimate massage that sometimes have full sex, but some creators have full sex in all their videos. on jff, i like: bendamonxxx; JanMassage; MassageMoveMen on of, i like: taoistmasseruk i've also enjoyed content from: massageforhim, muscledaddymasseur, nick_nivero, brandonanthony, sea-malemassage, tantricfitness (which has a variety of content, including massage)

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same. if someone sends a pm to the op, please send it to me, too. thanks

out of all masseurs in such places, who would be your first choice?

When it comes down to it, who is your first choice masseur in this scenario?

has anyone been to seasons men spa on east 13th st recently? it looks like rustam is no long there, but the spa has some new masseurs. plus, there’s an option for a thai yoga massage, which has a flame emoji in the description. dm with any personal details you can share. thanks

i would love to find a masseur in nyc who gives massages like this. if you have any reccs, let me know!

i concur in the positive reviews about jay. he’s a talented masseur and cares about doing a good job. he’s strong and works deep, and will adapt his massage as much as you need him to. plus, he speaks english, so it’s easy to communicate with him. id definitely go back

I came across this allegedly true story about an erotic massage in Queens. I asked the OP. for info, but didn’t receive a response. Does anyone have any thoughts about who the masseur might be? https://www.reddit.com/r/eroticgaymassage/s/IshiLAJ4wA

It's a really unique and exciting experience.

Do any of the pros offer ball fucking—where the top inserts his balls and his penis in the bottom’s hole? Looking primarily in NYC, but interested in such professionals elsewhere, too.

it looks like he now has a show called “A Gay Masseur’s Guide to Happy Endings.” TikTok - Make Your Day WWW.TIKTOK.COM

why would you have contacted him again after such a bad first experience?

his videos are available under a subscription at rawtantra.com

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Did Leo from Fifth Avenue Mens Spa end up someplace else?

Any recommendations for a masseur who has very slow hands that can work deep? Not even a sexual thing. It’s just a style that I like, but I find that many masseurs move quickly. (Btw, the post is to seek recommendations, not to debate massage styles or explain why some masseurs do not work very slowly. )

that guy used to be in nyc. he’s okay

are there any nyc masseurs who provide massages similar to those on jan kosto’s only fans? lots of stretching, permieum, and pelvic work? being massaged in a child’s pose?

does anyone have insight into the difference between the 60 and 90 minute sessions?