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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from + Just Sayin in A Sensual and Intimate Morning   
    I hope that these pics are ok to post on here. These are a few of the pics from a recent shoot I did with my partner. Check out my website to see the ones I definitely can't post on here. http://www.lancesf.com/#!my-sessions/c12tp
     
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from + quoththeraven in A Sensual and Intimate Morning   
    I hope that these pics are ok to post on here. These are a few of the pics from a recent shoot I did with my partner. Check out my website to see the ones I definitely can't post on here. http://www.lancesf.com/#!my-sessions/c12tp
     
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from + Eric Hassan in Sounding. What's your reaction?   
    For the record, I do try and ensure that my sounding experiences are as sterile as possible, without having an autoclave available. I use alcohol swabs to sterilize the rods, I place them on paper towels or fresh/unused hand towels and I try to only touch the proximal ends of the rods, so that areas that I'm touching are not entering the urethra. For the record though, I don't much care for medical lube, it's not slippery enough and there's too much friction which creates the potential for damage. I figure that silicone lube being squeezed from a bottle is likely sterile enough. None of my clients have experienced any medical issues after sounding with me.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from + g56whiz in Sounding. What's your reaction?   
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    Because of my experience in sounding, I get a fair number of requests from guys who want to try it, but I've also experienced alot of guys who are completely freaked out by the idea of it (which often evolves into an interest). I've found it to be one of you most polarizing of all fetishes/kinks. So, what is your reaction to it?
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    + Lance_Navarro reacted to David N Chattanooga in Sounding. What's your reaction?   
    Thanks Lance. It is an honor to meet you here. I use similar cleaning methods too and only touch the middle of my rods as both ends can be inserted. Thanks again...
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    + Lance_Navarro reacted to ny2222 in Sounding. What's your reaction?   
    Hey guys…well I know this topic seems kind of done...but just thought I would add another comment since there was a lot of talk on the sterility thing. Having dealt with the sterility issue most of my professional life and had to work in a deployed environment several times…I tend to agree with Rudynate…sterility is pretty much a relative term (well not really the term..but the concept is lol). Every time a doc cuts the skin (like in surgery) it is not sterile you just try and get it as close as you can. In this case I wouldn’t obsess too much over getting things absolutely sterile. Urine is pretty good at getting rid of bugs so long as the foreign object is gone. I think a “get things as clean as you can” approach is ok. I have done it a couple of times (yea it was ok…kind of novel like “holy crap I got a rod sticking out of my dick”) Keeping them clean, running them though the dishwasher (with hot dry cycle), using gloves, sterile water-based lube (they make an antibacterial one), keep a “clean field” with a clean towel, wiping them down with alcohol before use..and pee a lot afterwards Keeping them clean is probably the most important (dishwasher after each use) and not licking the sound before you put it in (saw that in a vid once) is probably also a good idea.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from Floyd_Taylor in Sounding. What's your reaction?   
    Thanks so much for sharing that hun! Was waiting for you to come across this post!
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from JDXXX in Sounding. What's your reaction?   
    Thanks so much for sharing that hun! Was waiting for you to come across this post!
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from JDXXX in Sounding. What's your reaction?   
    I'm guessing he used an injectable ED medication like trimix or keverject in combination with the cockring?
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    + Lance_Navarro reacted to Floyd_Taylor in Sounding. What's your reaction?   
    Thinking of anyone in particular Lance? lol.
     
    Yes, I was one of those clients Lance was speaking about who was fascinated by it and asked to try it with him. He was a complete pro at it. Lance and I have known each other for quite a few years so there is a level of great trust so that is required. But honestly, for me, it was neither positive or negative. My reaction was actually "meh". Interesting. I've done it. I wouldn't mind doing it again but I wouldn't go out of my way to do so. There was no pain (which I expected). It just sort of was. It was an experience. Cross that off the bucket list.
     
    But it actually came in handy a couple of weeks later. The best friend personal trainer (who is straight) is a former sex toy distributor. And she (the friend) occasionally likes to shock Chris, my trainer. So one day, she sent him a text asking him if he knew what sounding was. Of course he had no idea. Then she sent a video. Freaked him out to no end. I just happened to be the next client in so Chris asked me if I knew what sounding was. When I told him I'd tried and thought it was boring I think he almost lost it completely.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from + Keith30309 in Responding to clients who say I love you   
    Thank you so much for saying and acknowledging that! I do believe that I attract people that are balanced with high emotional intelligence. Of course, every once in a while I am sent someone that might challenge me a bit, but that's always good for growth.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from + WmClarke in Responding to clients who say I love you   
    I have quite a few clients with whom we say "I love you". Our work should be drawing from the energy of love, compassion and acceptance, so making someone feel loved, for me, is the hope. Therefore it's only natural that one would want to reciprocate and acknowledge that love. I understand the desire to maintain an emotional distance and to keep the relationship of client/provider defined, but we need to be less afraid of love. Its unfortunate that we can be so quick to anger and rage toward someone we barely know, or really don't know at all, yet so cautious at expressing love for someone we do.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from Jim Corrigan in Responding to clients who say I love you   
    I have quite a few clients with whom we say "I love you". Our work should be drawing from the energy of love, compassion and acceptance, so making someone feel loved, for me, is the hope. Therefore it's only natural that one would want to reciprocate and acknowledge that love. I understand the desire to maintain an emotional distance and to keep the relationship of client/provider defined, but we need to be less afraid of love. Its unfortunate that we can be so quick to anger and rage toward someone we barely know, or really don't know at all, yet so cautious at expressing love for someone we do.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from docred in Responding to clients who say I love you   
    I have quite a few clients with whom we say "I love you". Our work should be drawing from the energy of love, compassion and acceptance, so making someone feel loved, for me, is the hope. Therefore it's only natural that one would want to reciprocate and acknowledge that love. I understand the desire to maintain an emotional distance and to keep the relationship of client/provider defined, but we need to be less afraid of love. Its unfortunate that we can be so quick to anger and rage toward someone we barely know, or really don't know at all, yet so cautious at expressing love for someone we do.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from GaitedBear in Responding to clients who say I love you   
    I have quite a few clients with whom we say "I love you". Our work should be drawing from the energy of love, compassion and acceptance, so making someone feel loved, for me, is the hope. Therefore it's only natural that one would want to reciprocate and acknowledge that love. I understand the desire to maintain an emotional distance and to keep the relationship of client/provider defined, but we need to be less afraid of love. Its unfortunate that we can be so quick to anger and rage toward someone we barely know, or really don't know at all, yet so cautious at expressing love for someone we do.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from + quoththeraven in Responding to clients who say I love you   
    I have quite a few clients with whom we say "I love you". Our work should be drawing from the energy of love, compassion and acceptance, so making someone feel loved, for me, is the hope. Therefore it's only natural that one would want to reciprocate and acknowledge that love. I understand the desire to maintain an emotional distance and to keep the relationship of client/provider defined, but we need to be less afraid of love. Its unfortunate that we can be so quick to anger and rage toward someone we barely know, or really don't know at all, yet so cautious at expressing love for someone we do.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from romanz in Responding to clients who say I love you   
    I have quite a few clients with whom we say "I love you". Our work should be drawing from the energy of love, compassion and acceptance, so making someone feel loved, for me, is the hope. Therefore it's only natural that one would want to reciprocate and acknowledge that love. I understand the desire to maintain an emotional distance and to keep the relationship of client/provider defined, but we need to be less afraid of love. Its unfortunate that we can be so quick to anger and rage toward someone we barely know, or really don't know at all, yet so cautious at expressing love for someone we do.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from TruHart1 in Responding to clients who say I love you   
    I have quite a few clients with whom we say "I love you". Our work should be drawing from the energy of love, compassion and acceptance, so making someone feel loved, for me, is the hope. Therefore it's only natural that one would want to reciprocate and acknowledge that love. I understand the desire to maintain an emotional distance and to keep the relationship of client/provider defined, but we need to be less afraid of love. Its unfortunate that we can be so quick to anger and rage toward someone we barely know, or really don't know at all, yet so cautious at expressing love for someone we do.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from BaronArtz in Responding to clients who say I love you   
    I have quite a few clients with whom we say "I love you". Our work should be drawing from the energy of love, compassion and acceptance, so making someone feel loved, for me, is the hope. Therefore it's only natural that one would want to reciprocate and acknowledge that love. I understand the desire to maintain an emotional distance and to keep the relationship of client/provider defined, but we need to be less afraid of love. Its unfortunate that we can be so quick to anger and rage toward someone we barely know, or really don't know at all, yet so cautious at expressing love for someone we do.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from + quoththeraven in What's with the (no) kissing?   
    For me kissing is one of the best and most intimate and sensual parts of sex and connection. It's rough for me when I have a client that doesn't like to kiss, and it is usually because they identify as straight and it's just too intimate from their perspective. In these cases though I love to get as close to their lips as possible and match breathes without actually touching lips. In regards to the "tonsil raping", I have to say, it's a turn off. I enjoy a decent amount of tounge when kissing, but when kissing becomes almost all tounge and no lips, I no longer enjoy it. Usually if it's my first appointment with a client I will give them a little of it, but will move to kissing their neck, ears, chest, or elsewhere because I just don't enjoy the excessive amount of tounge. The next time I see them I will ask them for a little more lip.
     
    I understand that we all like different things, but it's important that we try and "read" our partner to understand what they enjoy and try and meet them half way. Most guys I've asked about this agree that kissing that's all tounge is not enjoyable for them.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from Moneymike68 in What's with the (no) kissing?   
    For me kissing is one of the best and most intimate and sensual parts of sex and connection. It's rough for me when I have a client that doesn't like to kiss, and it is usually because they identify as straight and it's just too intimate from their perspective. In these cases though I love to get as close to their lips as possible and match breathes without actually touching lips. In regards to the "tonsil raping", I have to say, it's a turn off. I enjoy a decent amount of tounge when kissing, but when kissing becomes almost all tounge and no lips, I no longer enjoy it. Usually if it's my first appointment with a client I will give them a little of it, but will move to kissing their neck, ears, chest, or elsewhere because I just don't enjoy the excessive amount of tounge. The next time I see them I will ask them for a little more lip.
     
    I understand that we all like different things, but it's important that we try and "read" our partner to understand what they enjoy and try and meet them half way. Most guys I've asked about this agree that kissing that's all tounge is not enjoyable for them.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from craigville beach in What's with the (no) kissing?   
    For me kissing is one of the best and most intimate and sensual parts of sex and connection. It's rough for me when I have a client that doesn't like to kiss, and it is usually because they identify as straight and it's just too intimate from their perspective. In these cases though I love to get as close to their lips as possible and match breathes without actually touching lips. In regards to the "tonsil raping", I have to say, it's a turn off. I enjoy a decent amount of tounge when kissing, but when kissing becomes almost all tounge and no lips, I no longer enjoy it. Usually if it's my first appointment with a client I will give them a little of it, but will move to kissing their neck, ears, chest, or elsewhere because I just don't enjoy the excessive amount of tounge. The next time I see them I will ask them for a little more lip.
     
    I understand that we all like different things, but it's important that we try and "read" our partner to understand what they enjoy and try and meet them half way. Most guys I've asked about this agree that kissing that's all tounge is not enjoyable for them.
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    + Lance_Navarro got a reaction from Juan Vancouver in What's with the (no) kissing?   
    For me kissing is one of the best and most intimate and sensual parts of sex and connection. It's rough for me when I have a client that doesn't like to kiss, and it is usually because they identify as straight and it's just too intimate from their perspective. In these cases though I love to get as close to their lips as possible and match breathes without actually touching lips. In regards to the "tonsil raping", I have to say, it's a turn off. I enjoy a decent amount of tounge when kissing, but when kissing becomes almost all tounge and no lips, I no longer enjoy it. Usually if it's my first appointment with a client I will give them a little of it, but will move to kissing their neck, ears, chest, or elsewhere because I just don't enjoy the excessive amount of tounge. The next time I see them I will ask them for a little more lip.
     
    I understand that we all like different things, but it's important that we try and "read" our partner to understand what they enjoy and try and meet them half way. Most guys I've asked about this agree that kissing that's all tounge is not enjoyable for them.
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