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IDK, thou yes it IS at the very least "honest" to be upfront, I wonder if a casual "so tell me about yourself what nationality are you.." etc query from a scort when talking texting emailing with a client would be a more PC way to determine if he wants to see the client. (an excuse can always be made for the reason to decline) BUT on the other had I have Af Amer buds who SAY on their dating profiles no white dudes black and hisp only etc and they see nada wrong with it. But I DO agree it saves time knowing a scort isn't into whatever you may happen to be, Black, Overweight, Little Person. Half Neurotic Jew (that one'd be me) etc etc. We ALL have types we are NOT into but would NEVER come out and say THAT'S the reason we wouldn't date them and guess it seem DOUBLY weird when coming from a person who makes his LIVING dating

I have a few older buds who've been S Daddies and oddly the relationships that worked out BEST were the ones where the Boy Baby was STRAIGHT (Sugar Boibaby 4Pay seems redundant ) Think because the arrangement with the older guy was his ONLY guy guy relationship he wasn't frustrated or hitting on younger dudes etc etc. His personal life was like a TOTS diff world that didn't infringe on his Daddy relationship. They just move on amicably when the boy gets married has kids etc (Got one bud who's boy was a Playgirl cover model he's NOW like 47 two grown girls one in College and but he MAINTAINED the relationship with my bud for YEARS until he and his fam moved away. They STILL see eachother occasionally have dinner etc and my bud says (in thanks for the $$$ of the early years) his former boi still lets him have a lil fun with him

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/rant-to-the-producers-of-porn.106157/

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/rant-to-the-producers-of-porn.106157/

TODAY it is VERY difficult for authorities to leap to accusations of guilt in these cases WITHOUT pretty difinitive PROOF. Thaz why I felt he was guilty from the start. NO SO 20 years ago or more when innocent ppl could be railroaded. Watch if you haven't the BRILLIANT Doc "Capturing The Friedman's" . You find out DECADES later that EVERYTHING that sent this Long Island PHD Dad to prison where he shortly died of a heart attack was a LIE, the boys lied, the authorities pressured them to lie, etc etc etc. NOW this guy WAS in fact a pedophile, and HAD molested boys in his past, and DID possess kid porn mags, and admitted he WAS attracted to young boys, so he WAS in essence guilty. He just didn't happen to be guilty of molesting ANY of the dozens of boys he taught computers to in his basement which is what he was convicted of. NOW, the rules have changed. PARENTS ARE allowed to be present if their kids are questioned, VIDEO of interviews are mandatory, as is TWO officers present during questioning. Think the days of just accusations in themselves being enough to bury someone are over.

Hard to believe Rue McC was FIFTY ONE when Golden Girls started lol!! NOW it seems like...WTF lol?? But THEN in 1985 when I was in HS, it seemed like, yah ok, these are old ladies

LOL I know I've been to a few and no there were no ventriloquists with their dummies there (some brought VERY tiny old relatives) but I prolly should have put "caricature" in FRONT of unveiling ps I've since looked up some pix, youtubes etc of this show since it was before my time and yah it was obvs WAY outside the box for it's time. (and the ventriloquist guy was kinda cute too

LOL No he wasn't the entertainment, there was no dummy, it was an unveiling party at Sardi's (for new characatures) NO idea why he was there no relation to the 2 ppl being unveiled etc but it was him.

You didn't read correctly ....was at a party and the older guy I was with kept trying to get me to remember this show because there was a guy there (kinda short blond hair like in his 50's) who was a "ventruiliquist ... etc THERE meaning at the party. The guy I was with said see that guy? He was on a show called Soap etc etc etc . This was two years ago btw.

I never saw this show BUT had heard of it and was at a party and the older guy I was with kept trying to get me to remember this show because there was a guy there (kinda short blond hair like in his 50's) who was a "ventruiliquist (sic)?" on this show??? That make sense lol??

I think we're being a little stereo-typical about these guys and forgetting JUST how much WORK goes into maintaining their workable status, gym regiments so specific so as to not add mass facials dermatologists hair salons dentists no carbs no booze 48hrs before a shoot no late nights mani's pedi's etc etc etc every part of them has to maintained like a Ferrari to keep their looks that we all drool over. So lets cut them some slack. All that being said I'll add one. Join Mensa.

Thanks. (CNN infinitely more reliable then a FBook sidebar I saw lol)

The Titanic hit an iceberg. Amelia Earhart ran out of gas. Marilyn forgot and took too many pills. Doesn't history tell us that the "simplest" (and yes least sensatioinal) explination is usually the right one?? PS I just read a pop-up this afternoon that says they "now" are leaning towards the found wing flap NOT being from a triple7. Anyone else see that? I can't find it again.

What I don't understand is the piece of LUGGAGE also found, how difficult would it be to match THAT to a PERSON? Even if ALL identifying labels have disintergrated surely there is SOME content inside that might lead to an identity or something that can be identified by a M370 relative no??

Yes. But I think 30 years ago (and the tests were probably TEN OR TWENTY years old at THAT point lol) there was a different connotation I'm sure there were "certain" fields disignated for boys who's answers somehow reflected a level of sensitivity (queer) or some artistic flair (queer). I DO remember listening to some of the other guys discussing it after and when someone asked me "what you get" I lied and said one of the careers the other guys got.

CAREER TESTS IN SCHOOL? Anyone else have to take?? That multiple choice quiz in HS where they tell you what you're BEST suited for?? Yes I was in Glee Club and the school plays etc lol but I also played sports was on the baseball team and did Karate since I was a kid etc "so" I really thought I'd be a fairly under the radar queer. Imagine my surprise when I sat across from the guidance councillor (who looked back n forth from ME to my test results several times before speaking) and said (with a lil smirk) FLORIST. I will never forget that, and though these were "private" I wondered (fearfully) if he shared our results with others in the teacher's lounge, Or WORSE with other guys in my class. The multiple choice questions were SO lame, at least to me at that time. WOULD YOU RATHER: A) WASH DISHES. B) DRY DISHES. Shit like that. "But" apparently designed to be kinda' accurate I guess *I also suppose writing in my own alt: C) GARNISH THEM - probably didn't help

IDK maybe the LAPSE in time has something to do with it. Sev years ago I was at a thing and talked to Larry King, the old host, his show was already off the air at that point. He told a story about his first love, the girl he planned to marry, he was nuts about her and couldn't live w/o her. But then his first REAL break in broadcasting came up but it meant moving far away and she refused to leave her family. He could not IMAGINE living w/o her, he took the job and felt like he'd blown his chance at his only love. 40 years LATER this very heavy very brassy woman with a screeching voice came up to him at a show in Fla and it was HER. He said he could NOT imagine what his life would have been if THIS is what he'd stayed with. "I" thought to myself, if he HAD maybe he would still SEE that girl he fell in love with when he looks at her now. Maybe?? I know from MY experience it can make a diff. I went gaga over a Gaeity dancer almost 15 years ago. A recently out of the Air Force 24yo Blonde adonis hair now to his shoulders green eyes muscular bod of a God etc etc. THAT guy who was my "ideal" is STILL in my life today. We grew close. He's a true friend now whom I love and it's mutual our families have even met etc thou none know "how" WE really met lol. He still allows me to have a little "fun" with him because he knows how happy it makes me, and says it makes him happy to make me happy, even thou he's 100% straight and "that" life is in his past. He's a 39yo suit and tie professional the long hair is gone the muscles and hard body has given way to a soft body with skinny arms and in REALITY he's no longer the Adonis I first saw BUT he still excites me because it's HIM. And THATS what I still see.

When we moved to the NYC burbs Freshman year of HS we had a pool and my brother who was 5 years older would have his buds over at night to carouse and swim and the rule was "show your face and I'll kick your ass" no one wants their lil bro hanging around so I'd stay in my room on the 2nd floor. But it overlooked the pool and right under my window would be these young hot Matt Dillon guys in various states of undress some would go in the pool in their white BVD's they drove me crazy. My Mom had given me her old instamatic (the kind you hada snap a flashcube onto) and I even TRIED to take flashless pix out my window of them all! (THRU the screen lol they didn't come out duh) Point is recently at a family wake there was a bunch of 50-ish balding paunchy guys w their wives etc and my brother takes me over and say you remember .... etc etc etc and THERE they were. WHATEVER happened to your speedo guy he's prolly best left in your memory

MY HS coaches looked like the Dad on The Wonder Years lol NO fantasy there. BUT Mr. P a fresh out of college Mark Harmon look-alike math teacher was ALSO the boys track team coach. They met Thursdays same day as Glee Club (I know) and we rehearsed in the gym and I noticed 20 mins after all the boys would come out to leave after showering HE would come out with that tell-tale wet hair so he obvs would wait until they showered first. (our locker room was off the gym and had individual showers not prison style, like 8 cubicles in a row) I tried once or twice to time using the bathrrom in the locker room to catch a sight of him but failed. The last day before Thanksgiving break I timed it JUST right he was IN the shower. I must have taken out and put back in my dirty gym clothes from a locker a dozen times stalling until he came out, but I got to see him. (from afar) I remember being shocked at how hairy his chest and stomach was, and how small and hard his ass was. And he had great feet too. His dick was a lot smaller than I thought a dick on a grown man would be but I didn't care lol. Spent the rest of that year of Freshman Math staring at him up at the blackbaord with THAT picture in my head and DO remember getting hard under my desk.

EXCEPT in most of the other locker room scenes there isn't a lead blonde-boy dancer wearing mascara Think I was in 8th grade when this movie came out and even THEN I remember thinking I ain't so sure most of "these" boys are really THAT excited bout going to the whorehouse lol.

LOL. HS. Musical. It you took 5 guesses you'd get it lol. Bye Bye Byrdie. I was Hugo.

Funny you said that, we moved out of the city to the NYC burbs when I started HS and freshman year I SWIPED a guy in my class's socks at an impromptu pool party one nite lol. All the guys just took off their shirts sneakers n socks and jumped in in their jeans. This guy (also Italian) looked like a really young Tony Danza with longer hair and he was a weight lifter with one of those V bodies he drove me crazy. His socks were just sticking out of his sneakers so I took 'em. Had NO idea what I was gonna do with 'em but I wanted them. I remember him saying someone was dicking around and took his socks etc . BUT this guy was what led to the realization that I could IDENTIFY OTHERS that "went to our church". We had a music/drama teacher a middle aged guy a little on the nerdy side not effeminate just nerdy, and I got a part in the big musical that Fall (yah I know) which he directed. Anyway this boy lived near the school and we'd rehearse at night in the cafeteria with the doors open and sometimes guys would show up and wander in to disrupt things goof on us etc. But when HE wandered in one night in jeans and a tight white T-shirt instead of tossing him out the director let HIM stay. He'd sit on a table feet dangling and watch and the director would keep going over to him and talking to him explaining the show etc etc etc. And I SO remember thinking WHY is he being so nice to HIM??? Then I remember realizing because it was obvious (to ME anyway) that HE thinks of this boy the same way "I" do, like sexually. And WANTS him the same way I do. It was the first time I recognized without any spoken word or someone else saying something, that an "adult" was queer like me.

Yes. And she LOOOOVED her gay son lol. Told EVERYONE how much fun we always have together going to shows shopping how much fun my friends were he took me here or there etc, more fun than with my bro or even my sis. I lost her this Spring. Miss her like crazy. Still pick up the phone like 10X a day cause I forget. Still haven't erased all her Vmails n stuff. It's weird cause you don't have a family of your own or a partner so it's like there's no one who gives a shit about you anymore. (I know not true of course, there's fam and wonderful friends etc) but this was the person who says call me when you get home put on a warm coat eat something call me when your plane lands go to the doctor etc etc you know stuff like that. It's so weird not having that anymore.

I grew up in an Italian hood close to the Village, and I went to a pre-school and weekend day camp right off Christopher St. I remember walking past the bars on a Sunday afternoon holding my mother's hand, doors open guys spilling out onto the street screaming and laughing, and I must have asked my mother what these "parties" were that were going on, because I remember her yanking me and saying NEVERMIND. I had no idea what a gay bar was or even what gay was, but I remember REALLY wanting to see what was inside. We also had a "queer" neighbor, an older guy (30's) who lived with his parents in our building. I remember his name was Carmine and he had long hair and again I had no idea what queer was but I knew it had something to do with being like a girl because I distinctly remember my older brother and his friends watching Carmine come down the front stoop carrying his bike and the guys cracking that he should have a GIRLS bike. I also remember coming home from the market with my mother and someone had grafitti-d his name on the side of our stoop and another word that I didn't know that in retrospect was probably FAG, because my mother took her shoe off and scraped at the cement with her heel to scratch the word off. I had NO idea what the word meant but I SO remember having some weird feeling that it had something to do with ME in some way.

For MY generation what made my pre-pubecent insides go gaga was The Hardy Boys Mysteries, OMG I used to DREAM about Parker lol! I remember SCREAMING at my big brother to shutup when it was on and he was like whats the BFD it's just a stupid show etc ! But, like most memories their best left in your mind:rolleyes: http://s3.postimg.org/y0an3mrnm/image.jpg