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You are not slaves because Slaves do not get paid and they are doing the work unwillingly. On the other hand, you are doing the work on your own free will and are getting paid, so it's not slavery (unless it involves human trafficking, which is a different story). Anyway, I was pointing out that the this entire thing is a business transaction. Escorts provide a service, and clients pay them in return. It's literally the same relationship you have with a barber, a gardener, or a cellphone company. If you're unhappy with the provided service, take your business to a different provider

Do you still tip when hiring a masseur or provider in Europe? In America it's pretty much mandatory because of the culture that originally started in restaurant industry but has now seeped through the other industries. When eating at restaurants in Europe (major countries), tipping is not expected and sometimes frowned upon or discouraged. I wonder if this no-tipping culture permeates when hiring masseurs and providers in Europe.

He's traveling constantly. That's how you make business. Locals ain't hiring you day in day out.

Lol. Are there never do-able clients at Thermas? Isn't it a bathhouse after all?

Thanks! I'm guessing the environment is like a typical bathhouse in the USA, but the only difference is that the providers are also in the bathhouse? Since, everyone will be naked or in towels, is it possible to mistake a customer from a provider then? Or is there anything that will help you identify customers vs providers (eg, wristband with a key)?

Visiting Thermas for the first time in a few weeks. Can those with experience give me some pointers on these (I don't want to be noticed as if I was a newbie): 1. What to expect when going in? 2. How does guy selection happen? 3. Costs to expect? 4. Any other tips? Thank you community!

ah, well, maybe I'd get lucky and see his ad up again.

How did you book him since he's no longer on RM?

What if you wanted Round 2 while still have the extra time?

Damn boys, i guess we're dinosaurs now, huh? We're too old for this technology stuff. Get off my lawn!

It was never about how you look or how you are in the bedroom. We are hiring these guys to do work for us. They're doing this as their job, and they only have one job: that is to "provide" sexual services. They are "sex providers". This guy sadly chose not to do the job properly when he was with you.

Planning to swing by Portugal.

Are there no laws in NYC where alcohol/drinks prohibited from being sold where there's fully nude people around? (Los Angeles or Las Vegas have such laws at least at commercial places available to public)

Would you say this was similar to a bunch of guys in a dark room at a bathhouse?

Tell us here! Or should I PM you instead?

yes, it's a fetish. How do I move this to that forum? Do we need a Moderator to do that?

If one hires a 19-year-old escort instead, would that be more tasteful for you?

...do you ever have phases on Grindr where you pursue guys aged 18 to 23 who look like twinks and far from the muscular look? And you kind of enjoy the idea of corrupting them, so the less their experience the better? How's that been for you?

Like warm good? or do you mean too hot kind of warm?

Planning a trip to Barcelona (especially Thermas) and Madrid just to see Spain (and maybe meet local boys too, and checkout spas/saunas/bathhouses). Which timeframe do you recommend?

Grindr responds to reports?! That's news to me. I've reported several guys for being fake (because they're using pics of IG celebs) and they've never took them down.

would like to hear about this too!

Just to be fair, the actual posted question was about "What have you done in instances...", which I even clarified by saying "I'm asking to those who actually experienced this scenario or similar. (Not asking those who have yet to be in this situation.) ". This is probably why @muscmtl was asking for proof.

I second San Gabriel Valley for Chinese food in the Los Angeles area.