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Nope....not a character flaw at all--from my perspective.

It depends on how much you will be hurt to lose him/her/them from your life. If you have totally lost faith, then let them go. If you really can't let go, talk to them, forgive and try again. If you cant talk to them or let go, swallow hard, and continue the relatioship as is. There are really only three responses to any problem.
1. Walk away from it
2. Change it
3. Live with it.
I'm sorry you have been hurt. warm hugs to you.

Hi Geminibear,
 
Thanks for creating this thread as I myself in the past year have been painfully hurt and betrayed recently by a couple of people I thought were my close friends, and came to find out they bad mouthed me to each other, and even stabbed me in the back on more then one occasion.
 
Wanted to get even, and been tempted to do so considering the circumstances of how badly burned I was in the situation, but decided to take the "high road" instead.
 
Really hurts when you been loyal to someone you consider as a friend, and then consequently in the end find out they've betrayed your trust and confidence in them cold-heartedly to others. Then when you call them out on it, and express your hurt and anger - they wanna so call end they're association/friendship with you after they've done you wrong viciously.
 
Really hurts to be burned terribly in that manner, but it's good these things do happen to show us who are true friends are in this world.
 
Now, how shitty is that? By them ending a friendship after you call them like that shows maybe they can't stand you hurt you, and is a firm of guilt maybe?
 
I can totally relate what your experiencing, and sorry to hear this happened to you.
 
I'd say take the high road, and eventually forgive, but not hold a grudge. I'm gonna do the same thing is to forgive, but on guard of who I consider as close friends from now on. Especially if I been burned by them already horrifically in the past without end.
 
Be the bigger person and forgive, baby as it'll pay off to keep a positive outlook and know what goes around does eventually come around to those who are nasty individuals that can't be trusted with a two dollar bill as karma my dear can be a vicious bitch too. Just doesn't pay to be nasty to people, and always be gracious and kind to others as when your nasty to people who been loyal and kind to you, it'll come back on you and sometimes 10 times fold worse then the crap that person has done unto you.
 
Just isn't worth it, and best to take the high road in these sort of unfortunate circumstances.
 
Really is a shame, but it happens, and we move on with our head up high knowing they're are more fish in the sea as you win some and you lose some as they swim up stream. ;)

i try to forgive & forget, but I don't expect others to forgive me or forget what I've done to them. It is actually kinda liberating for me to live my life that way bc I don't have to hold myself accountable for the actions of others - only for my own. If I offend someone I care for (I have to care for them), and I want them to forgive me, I put myself to work to eventually gaining their forgiveness; however, I don't ever expect them to forget it nor be grudge-free. That's their baggage to work thru.
 
I do try my very best to not hold a grudge- that's debilitating. I'm working on that. Ask me again in a century or so.

Do me wrong, and my inner child comes out & he's very Jewish...meaning you become dead to me.

Hey--cutting bitches is my turf....go find your own corner

I can relate to your feelings, @geminibear , I'm kind of a fascist of friendship loyalty and confidence. One of my best teachers told me once that I did not want friends but dogs. I think everything always depends on the circumstances, I don't believe in "never" and "always", so my advice would be ... If you can forgive, forgive him/her/them. No one is perfect.

Recall does not prove/disprove forgiveness. But saying you forgive and then throwing it at the person over and over, OR harboring ill-will indefinitely.....well....that aint forgiveness.
 
Ok....now that's all my good-deedin' for the next 6 months around here.

With a little time, I am able to put things in perspective, forgive, move on, not be controlled by the hurt/feelings, but that does not mean I trust the other party. You can forgive someone, but not trust them. Trust is a bank account and requires alot of deposits over a long period of time to accrue. It can be bankrupted by one act.

I don't know any bitches per say and I am well versed in the use of sharp knifes.
It was nothing so drastic to be "cut". It was more the fact that they didn't care enough to be bothered.
I had a 4 hour drive this morning by myself to think about how I was let down.

But isn't not forgetting the same as holding a grudge?

Do you forgive and forget or hold a grudge?
 
I was recently let down by some people which until now I considered my closest friends.

By rumour, Dr. Mauricio Goldstein, a retired porn actor and former lover of Rafael and now engaged in an aesthetic bioplasty enhancement practice in Brazil, is responsible for that celebrated "bubble butt"; and, too, by rumour, the gigantic cock of Dr. Goldstein's current lover, Mukhtar Satarov. The "Dr", however, does not imply that he has a medical degree, rather a doctorate in aesthetic enhancement.

Say, "Do it for Rosh Hashanah and you'll have good luck in the new year."

Most of the time, Rafael is mentioned as a Top in the forum and reviews. But every once in a while, someone has successfully had Rafael as a Bottom. I have seen Rafael a few times now and each time, I try to persuade him to be a Bottom and he refuses. We end up having me as a Bottom (I am not complaining -- he is fantastic as a Top). But I want to know what buttons to push or what words to say to convince Rafael to bend over?
 
Yours,
Greg

Keep them coming, Marylander. Lol.
 
Bring us MORE men to drool over!!!!!!!

That was my first thought. He's not exactly young, but he's very hot and loves to he rimmed. Plus he's bargain price wise.

Tremendous fan of rimming ass.
Benjamin, what exactly did you mean? From his videos, Rafael has a gorgeous butt.

You fucked your Rafael Alencar
that pose more enjoyable
dick likes Rafael

Thanks for the tips so far--I was with Rafael Alencar some years ago--he is a great time, and that cock--memorable.
 
The best I've had lately was Jonathan Vargas--not sure he'll be in town when I can schedule, but as my recent formal review of him here showed, he's pretty much heavenly. If he is around, perhaps that will be my last hurrah...but I'll ponder the above advice and any that might be forthcoming.
 
Thanks!

Delicious Rafael...
 
I can highly recommend Rafael Alencar in NYC...A sweet and gorgeous guy who loves getting his hole rimmed and I was in heaven doing it! Reaching around and stroking Rafeal's monster cock at the same time as rimming him was beyond HOT. Turns out Rafael's an eager cocksucker and bottom, too. I hope you get to personally experience RA's incredible butt before moving. Have fun, man.
 
Goodfella

Keep them coming, Marylander. Lol.
 
Bring us MORE men to drool over!!!!!!!

Truly beautiful men. Thanks Marylander!

Thank you for answering Axiom2001's call. It's good to have blond, brown and red-haired guys featured here, but there's a wider variety of good-looking men out there than that.

Lol. YEAH BABY!!!
 
Thanks Marylander!!!
 
Greatly appreciate the exposure.