Oh boy you just opened Pandora’s box. Wait for the judgement to start in 3,2,1….
I have noticed the exact same thing about what their profile says and what pictures and video show. There is a thread going about Zandy in SF and this same comment was made. It is a bit of a difficult spot to be in because you ask if they BB then they may get offended even when their videos show them raw dogging
my suggestion would be to not bother with them if at all possible and focus on guys that day ask me or anything goes.
I wish you good luck finding that right pro
And I wish you good luck with the oncoming onslaught of people with higher moral and medical standards than you and I have and want nothing more than an opportunity to disparage your personal choices with sex.