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Our relationship just got stronger. We have never fought much - resolving conflicts by talking things out - and we just intuited when the other needed some solitude. We had always conducted our relationship in a way that gave each of us plenty of independence. What it feels like to me, is that we were two "I's" and during the pandemic, we became a "we." it helps that we have a pretty-good sized house and we spread into that space more than ever before.

Long time ago - somebody gave me a drag name - Cuntessa Cerise.

Don't conflate occasional users of meth and meth addicts. For decades, there have been gay men who use meth occasionally for sex but at no other time. Are they abusers? Probably. But one wouldn't consider them addicts.

He's more than toned - he's a wall of muscle.

My coach posted a photo of me on his IG page to show what could be accomplished with home workouts. It wasn't that hard. I found a hottie on IG who posted a new workout everyday and I followed his workouts more or less religiously.

I don't hire skinny men, but it's more because I'm not attracted to them. I like tall, slender men, but skinny is just plain skinny.

You don't say how old you are. You may have to adjust your expectations some. But the important thing is to stop thinking about it and get started - today. The pandemic has only been around for months, not decades. If you had a great body only a few months ago, you can have it again after a few more months.

Never too late.

Look for the generic name sildenafil. They have several brands on ADC.

I'm a competitive bodybuilder.

Maybe it's a difficult airport so that landing and/or takeoff are more challenging. I havent been to San Diego in a long time but I used to think landing there was positively scary.

Why not? He said he budgets for it.

For his, I'm already in the right frame of mind

I have never wanted to rim a rosebud, but only a couple days ago I was chatting with a guy on a hookup site and his rose just called out to me in that way. I was really surprised.

There are very experienced FF bottoms, referred to as having "trained" holes, who can do amazing things with their holes. A lot of these guys can produce a rosebud at will. In the FF world, a loose sloppy hole is highly prized.

I like 'em. I'm into fisting and buttplay, and the strangeness of it is very much a turn on.

I only hire for therapeutic massage. The rate is lower and, if nothing happens, at least I got a decent massage. It also expands the universe of available masseurs, because, since I'm not looking for sex I can hire a sexy straight guy and not be disappointed. But even when you hire for therapeutic massage - something often happens, even if you're not expecting it.

It is what it is. I'm not hung big, and of course, there are guys who will reject me as a sexual partner on that one criterion, but there are LOTS who won't. I focus on the LOTS who won't and am not bothered by guys who wouldn't be interested in me because of the size of my dick. Besides, I would be a hypocrite if I did because I happen to love big dicks. But I'm flexible, If a guy is built nice, I don't care how big his dick is.

The next county can't be that far away.

My mother gave us a hyper-technical discussion about eggs and sperm, but she never answered the crucial question.

My mother's family has some pieces of china that, according to family lore, were in the hold of one of the ships boarded during the Boston Tea Party. I thought this story was kind of a stretch, but I showed a picture of one of the dishes to a ceramics curator at the Royal Ontario Museum. He said the pattern was produced by Wedgewood in England during the 1760s. So it isn't impossible that the story is true.

I've never been to either place. I suspect I will go to PS sometime this year. It seems chock full of sexy dads into edgy sex. It is a popular retirement destination for guys from San Francisco. Oscar Wilde said of San Francisco - " “It's an odd thing, but anyone who disappears. is said to be seen in San Francisco." I have changed it to "anyone who disappears. is said to be seen in Palm Springs." Guys that you used to see around in San Francisco invariably turn up retired in Palm Springs. I don't see myself living there - I imagine it to be an endless series of conversations about "Golden Girls" episodes and what a marvelous actress Betty White is. I just mentioned to my husband that we probably ought to go to P-town one of these days.

Agree about Sedona with one exception - the Enchantment Resort. I think it's the plushest place we've ever stayed and it is situated ( unfortunately) inside of a beautiful box canyon. We liked it so much the first time that we went back for a second visit only a few weeks later.

San Francisco: Overrated: Fisherman's Wharf Underrated: San Francisco's stairways

A client in San Diego wants to take me sailing - I will probably go there in mid-June. I have two shows planned for July - Seattle and Pittsburgh. I know that none of them are sure things but I don't see any reason, just now, why I won't do all three.