I understand and appreciate the replies from providers and "thanks," guys. You raise several good points. However, I share Mplsgymguy's frustration. I live in an area of Minnesota where travel to a major city is the only way to do a meet-up. It's frustrating when top-quality muscle I have been wanting time with just pops up in a city I enjoy (hint hint, Vegas) and, of course, their window of opportunity doesn't match mine. There's probably no good answer to the situation, but I'm afraid some of us can get branded as mere Looky Lous or flakes when short notice shoots our hopes down in flames. Ah well, such is life.