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Well, that kind of took the air out of the tires, so to speak. I'm actually shocked. I assumed everything was always ethical since I assumed there was special lighting, obvious cameras and camera operators, a director, etc.

Once, I was on a nude beach called Super Paradise in Mykonos and saw a really well built and handsome guy in the gay area. He was around my age (mid 20s) and kept looking at me. We ended up going back to his room and having fun. The challenge was we had no common language. He spoke German (from Austria) and I spoke English. We had to communicate non-verbally but that didn't stop a good time. It is a great memory.

Chicago is pretty much shut down. Even if places were open, I would not take health risks until I am confident it is safe.

I just read this list again hoping that the vaccine will allow me to have travel adventures next year.

I have no idea. I didn't know there was a debacle.

Next time I'm in New York. As soon as travel is safe again, I'm there.

This forum is also a good source of travel information.

Many places have gay tourism websites that can start a rabbit hole.

I usually start by googling the location and gay and guide and take it from there.

Thanks. I don't hire escorts but I like the community I feel from this site. I do get massages and I travel and I love getting recommendations from this site. I also like stories people post (I started a thread about travel sex stories, for example.) I'm not opposed to hiring and I am not saying I wouldn't hire but I am still inexperienced in that regard.

Sex gone wrong stories can be entertaining as well....Just sayin'

I love reading these remembrances.

When I travel, I try and hire a gay tour guide for at least a few hours so I can not only tour but learn about gay life and culture in that location. Twice in the past couple of years, somehow, I ended up fooling around with the guide after the tour ended. Both of those experiences were unexpected wonderful surprises. I would never count on that happening but when it did, I sure appreciated it.

Yeah. I've made contributions in gratitude.

Me too.

I'm hoping to resume renting a room in New York starting in the spring and hope to see Kenzo. I miss having adventures in NYC.

Do you think we should try and get more people who would participate to join this site? Would that enhance our experience? If so, how do we get more members who would be appropriate for the culture of this forum?

Would it be giving away my age if I said Jack Wrangler, Rick Donovan, Scott O'Hara, Lance, John Davenport, and Kip Knoll? All when they were young and healthy.

I was in my late 20s and in Minneapolis on business when I went to a gay bar and ran into someone I had met at a volleyball tournament. He was an athlete, very tall, in good shape, and shy with dark hair, smooth body, and nice definition. He was around my age, maybe a few years older. He invited me to his place and I ended up fooling around with him and spending the night. He was handsome and sweet and a lot of fun. In the morning, he left for work and his handsome, hairy roommate came into the room with a cup of hot coffee for me. He was also around my age with sandy brown hair and thick even stubble on his face. He had a naughty smirk and was wearing only a bathrobe which accidentally opened up when he was serving my coffee. In no time at all, I was in his bedroom. He was a lot of fun. I felt both happy and guilty as I left to continue with my day. I hope I didn't do anything that could damage their friendship. In the mean time, I felt desired and satisfied.

Last with year I visited India and Sri Lanka for the first time. I had some great little sexual adventures and found men sexy and kind. There is a market for older white gay guys there. Anyway, someone messaged me on Grindr or Scruff. I happened to be free at the time and he asked if he could come to my room. I said ok. He showed up quickly. He was a cute college guy in his early 20s. He then told me that he is kinky and that I can do anything I want. I asked him about boundaries, limits, and a safe word. He said no to all of these. I'm not experienced with this but tried to figure out what I could do that would please him and not compromise me. So I pulled out a blindfold that came my plane seat and put it on him. I then held his arms over his head (on the bed) and told him not to move them. It was like bondage with no bondage. He was obedient and obviously excited. When we were done playing, I talked to him brainstorming ways to be kinky but also safe. I suggested he ask for a cell number before meeting a guy (he knew nothing personal about me) and we came up with a few more things he can do to protect himself without ruining the excitement. I didn't lecture but discussed. I learned something and I hope he is happy and healthy.

lovely story. thanks for sharing it with us. there are so many ways to start a friendship.

Thanks for letting us know why he looks so familiar.

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I want to go to Amerstdam now that I'm an adult!

When I was 22, I was starting to try and find gay sexual adventures when traveling. I was naive and pretty scared but excited. This was my first trip without family and it was a great opportunity to be naughty and explore gay opportunities. Everything was so new to me. Somehow I found a club called Heaven in London. I looked much younger than my age and I was thin and shy. Somehow I met an older guy (early 40s?) who was from Spain. He was an art dealer who procured masterpieces for museums. He took me back to his room and sweet talked me into sucking his beautiful dick. It was the first uncut dick I ever put in my mouth. He was clearly in charge and I was enjoying the experience. Suddenly, he held my head down and shot into my mouth. I then went into the bathroom and spit out his cum which made him a bit upset. I had no idea why he would care if I spit or swallowed. Nevertheless, I loved feeling desired by a stranger. This encounter made me feel more mature, sophisticated, and worldly.