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I often wonder how escorts manage to top clients whom they don’t find attractive. I can understand bottoming for them, but how do they get an erection and perform as a top for a guy they don’t like?

Reporting back.... Thank you all for your input. Nicolas was amazing, everything said here and in his RM reviews is true. Interestingly, going by the age of this thread (older than his current RM profile), he's been in this business for many years now, and it shows. He's a consummate professional - he reads the client incredibly well and knows how to put you on cloud nine. While I'd like to think that coincidentally I happen to be "his type", my rational self tells me that he is simply an incredibly skillful performer -- but the fact remains that he "lit up" immediately when he first saw me, was aroused the entire time and behaved like he couldn't get enough of me for the duration of our long session. I've had some memorable encounters over the years but this night with Nicolas made it into my top 5 for sure. I just hope I can see more of him soon!

Yes, Mark, I agree with you. Searching for a new provider is a bit nerve-wracking I was referring more to the idea of preserving the excitement of the great sex with one given provider once you find him, by spacing out his visits and keeping them special. As opposed to giving in to the mostly irrational urge of escalating the relationship into something more permanent. How long do you typically go between appointments with your regular(s)?

This resonates with me. I have experienced the mixed feelings of wanting more after an especially great sexual encounter - be it with a paid provider, or with a regular hook up through Grindr. When you experience incredible chemistry and sexual compatibility, your brain goes into that territory of questioning if there could be more. When that happens, I'm quick to remind myself that it's next to impossible to maintain that level of intensity and avoid routine as a relationship becomes established. I know that from painful past experience - and maybe it's my fault for not knowing how to keep the sparks flying and work on perpetual re-invention of the relationship... but I've never been successful at that. So, I choose to preserve the great sex by keeping it special - a repeat hire (or hookup) several weeks later, as schedules and life allow. The anticipation builds, the excitement returns just like, or sometimes even better than, the first time. The paid providers are easier to keep around since it's a business to them. The regular hookups not so much... but when they stick around, it can be great.

That did it, @BuffaloKyle. Thanks so much. I wonder why the review text is stripped out in the US, given that the rest of the site is still available... doesn't make much sense to me.

Sorry if this is a dumb question, but is there a trick to reading provider reviews on RM? All I see are the ratings and canned answers to time spent, ambiance, etc. but no text or comments by the reviewers. Am I missing something? Or is it just that nobody takes the time to write even a few words?

Thanks so much for confirming, @StLouisOct. I'm looking forward to some time with him. I'll report back!

Hello gentlemen, Finding this thread a couple of years late, but wondering if this is the same guy who goes by Nicolasmxx now on RM... https://rent.men/Nicolasmxx Considering some time with him and I'd love to know if all the positive comments above apply!