They probably just saw the writing on the wall. They were paranoid after the RB thing to the point you barely knew what the site was about anymore. No talk of sex as in what you like. Must wear clothes, etc.
Next time just buy his Dildo for $ 67.23. Probably more interactive.
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Ha. Whenever I see "twinkielover" I make sure not to open the links. I already know without looking it's going to be some very under age looking guys. I don't want that shit on my computer.
Initially yes. However, Meth will last you much longer and thus is a better value for your money. One lasts only a few hours and the other lasts at least 14 hours.
I at least understand the ones that want the straight guy to act disgusted while getting blown or something. Now we have the ones that want them to get turned on by the intimacy of it. Of coarse the reality is that they're not really "straight" by that definition but never mind. Gay men and their fantasies.
I remember watching Bridegroom and how the family wouldn't recognize the guys lover or even let him come to the funeral. Sadly your situation isn't that unusual.
Sorry about your loss. My own dad died of Kidney Cancer.