If that's the case just hire guys who can host. Most providers know they should be able to host because it's good for business.
Don't spend a grand a night unless you absolutely want to.
Because we did smart things when we were young and now we can afford treating ourselves.
Many young clients tired of "Grindr fatigue" pay using credit cards.
Especially in this day and age where most gay couples are open. There should be no difference between a hookup or paying for sex outside a relationship.