marylander1940

unless he's passable like the bisexuals and a minority of the gays. He certainly had the cojones or bolas / huevos like @José Soplanucas would say to undergo treatments, bureaucracy, surgeries, folks being judgmental, etc.

Let's call them THE gays who every now and then have sex with a woman. Although I doubt the law made a difference once a guy gets caught with THE gays. Truckers hookup scene of "There's something about Mary". I'm sure most of those gentlemen had wives and children, the gays just showed up and they're clearly identifiable just by looking at them.

For mainstream America once you dip your toes in lake gay there's no way back to straight specially if you do it regularly. I don't think committing the crime of sodomy once a month and getting caught made a difference to law enforcement if the offender had a wife and children. Why the need to point being bisexual as more masculine? Private lives? Back to subject: A man in a dress? Being transgender is way more than that...

@caramelsub I think your question has been answered, "the gays" now are more accepted and some even like to punch down on transgender rights to be more accepted! I guess just like bisexuals like to point they are not gays to feel more accepted.

Agreed! I've found many times that the smaller the city the more likely escorts also have a part time job.

Maybe we should mind our own business instead of telling others how to live their lives specially considering behaviors "the gays" used to do were illegal for centuries. Who are "the gays" to judge ?

Enjoy, he wasn't a clock watcher! Sometimes being a hand full or not is in the eyes of the beholder. Good point! In general afterglow talk is not included in the fee but I see a situation when an escort after doing the deed might run the clock in order to get 2 hours of pay. Fortunately in this case and like in so many described on here the provider simply loved the conversation and wanted to hang out. That's been the case for me and some of my regulars are good friends because of that.

May we all have a butter face like he does!

Because he doesn't look Bel Ami (white)? Just wondering! Maybe you're just a face guy!

Don't you forget about our obesity epidemic which for the first time in the history of mankind is related to poverty, our issues with drug addiction, culture of date rape, credit card debt, alcoholism in college, folks who hoard stuff at home out of loneliness, in-cell lifestyle, etc. Hitler referred to us as a nation of pleasure seekers unable to rage war, he was proven wrong! Do we lack the individual responsibility to do the right thing nowadays? As a gay man I'm proud we stood to the challenge and saved the world from Monkeypox when most of us abstained from hiring or free sex in the crucial months of June, July and August 2022. Now we have a pill to prevent HIV, for decades most of gay men behaved responsibly while others sadly took chances to get a bit more of pleasure. As you point even a poor crowded country like the Philippines can teach as an example of how to deal with the issue of those who get in trouble, I'm sure there's some tough love involved in how the family helps those who need help. San Francisco certainly is an extreme case, a case of "two cities" and must be addressed. "If you think it can't be done (solved) step aside", Ronal Reagan

Folks should be more flexible. Some might be skeptical about clients who make plans for later in the week based in their own experiences about flakes, unfortunately good clients pay for timewasters.