marylander1940

Maybe he thought he had the upper hand because he was recommended to you or someone told him you were a big spender. Most gay men in NYC with some spendable money hire. I agree plenty on the rest of your post! @ICTJOCK This is forum for most of us is a way to get referrals and also warnings, besides being exposed to what others like to do and who do they hire.

don't mention him or they'll start defending him and saying those women "had it coming" and "knew what they signed up for". No empathy while posting in a forum is empowering!

don't worry... for instance some in this forum never heard about him before and I wouldn't be surprised if he becomes even more famous, wealthy and successful and goes back to play himself in films. I'm sure some will follow him because they think he's innocent while others might do it just for the fun of good ole trolling and pissing off rape survivors etc. just to feel good about themselves. Sad but true! He's like Andrew Tate but without the looks, hairstyle, muscle, etc. a cheaper English version!

and that's why some escorts/masseurs prefer to be paid upfront.

That dated kitchen must go!

Again, hire whoever you want to hire for whatever they're asking for.

despite confessing in a hot mic... I guess the system is not rigged against him. Oh the cult of victimhood!

Actually I think they should charge more because giving a massage is a lot of work. Again the market will decide and if they are charging so much is because they can't get it or they would lower their rates or get another job. Please let's keep it classy no need for such an explicit depiction...