marylander1940

What about fantasy? Who would you pay 600/1000 for?

It's official marriage equality is here. Gay men are behaving like straight guys.

and then you complained if the guy is 5 minutes late.... as poste above is a way to show commitment. No doubt. Considering the "Grindr fatigue" over fake profiles and flakiness many guys get offered umbers by someone who wants to host them.

Yes, a way to build trust and for the client to show he's for real. In this era of burner numbers this is required because a stalker can waste a provider's time sending all over town with fake appointments. Yes, most folks in town walk or take public transportation but how soon does the client want him to arrive is another issue and you'd be amazed about the demands providers receive. in NYC uber makes no sense, subway is faster. If a guy is in Midtown he can usually walk to most clients. Why do you usually have this mean condescending tone when you talk about providers? I know is a love-hate relationship because most of us HAVE to pay knowing they have sex with others for free but let's have some respect.

@Jarrod_Uncut the escort sent me the screenshot of the text messages. Therefore, he's the one on the right and the client (timewaster) is the one on the left texting him.

Depends! Even if he's doing an overnight when you contact him on a Monday to getting together on a Friday, he can always text back from the bathroom or when they client is not around. I would say wait one day and if he doesn't reply by then move on to the next and if he texts you back later just tell him you made other plans. Hopefully he didn't reply to you the day before because he was out of the country or hiking the Appalachian trail without connection. If provider doesn't text back within 24 hours, I would expect an explanation about why it took him so long.

It should be behind him!

Tasty!

Yes, he's hot but NOT that hot!

An escort friend told me yesterday he got a text message from Whitman Walker announcing changes to STD clinic. If a patient tests positive or shows symptoms that need treatment his insurance company will have to pay for it. I'm truly disappointed about it, they could simply charge 100 to whoever tests positive and keep the service anonymous, now his insurance will be informed and it will be in his record.

If you "have the money" would you ever consider a keptman /sugar boy kind of situation? Something like "seeking arrangement"?

Agreed! Some clients want the illusion of exclusively and they would rather hire someone who only has a client per week.