I've never asked for lab results.
All human actions involve some form of risk including sex. It's up to us to make choices.
I BB before the HIV epidemy and after PrEP was proven to be effective. I never took the risk of HIV's Russian roulette that's why I'm alive.
OP note: rebound after Covid-19 and we're still losing folks to a now preventable and treatable disease.
U.S. Life Expectancy Rose Overall, But Overdose Deaths Still Set Records (usnews.com)
Life Expectancy by State 2024
WORLDPOPULATIONREVIEW.COM