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You're making good points but I'm unsure of calling this a sugar-daddy type relationship. 7) @Unicorn I would have a friend check on him while you're away. I'm not talking about whether he'll be having fun or not in your house which I'm sure he'll do. I'm concerned about him being left alone either knowing or guessing you'll kick him out when you're back. Hide CC, SC and other important things, check your credit in case he opened a CC in your name, etc. If a friend could stay in the house even better. Have a safe a trip, and a productive conference! Once you get back home life goes on, break ups happen and we all get by.

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If it wasn't photoshopped... the guy on the right is just perfect!

exactly, a divorce is always a mess!

The 2 of you (and many others) had a good time and that's all that matters! You'll have other beaus in the future!

It amazes me when in such a buyers market like NYC guys are so irresponsible. Ghost me once and unless there's an explanation I'm done...

Thank you @SilverDollar do you have a link to his ad on RM?

I have a feeling you've done this before...!

Life is as complicated as we make it. @kaboom35 Hotels requiring a key to access the elevator is not a new thing and it's becoming more and more common, with some hotels even requiring a key card to enter the premises after 11 PM. Just talk to the reception and tell them to give your key to your friend coming to visit you as @hypothetically says or meet him discreetly at the elevator. It's not a big deal! Tell him you might have coworkers around you and he must dressed and talk in a discreet way just in case... I know escorts who simply wait a minute and tailgate their way to the floor where the client is staying. The Grand Hyatt in Stockton St San Francisco not only requires a card but if you're staying on the 28th floor your card only works for that precise floor. I had an escort who got my room sweaty, he ran into the elevator with someone else and took a ride to the 15th floor, later on he took the stairs to the 28th. Yes, the exit stairs didn't require a card. Maybe some on here overthink things... I guess we have careers and reputations to worry about. Guilty as charged! But even now a days in this puritan side of the pond there are subjects that must be kept in a discreet way. Personally I'd rather a guy hiring while on a business trip instead of looking who's on grindr in the office, dating coworkers, hitting the interns, etc.

A smirk if you can find it!

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such a fun job!