It just happened to me... he was never a lover but a friend, now I can't stand him.
I got together with this old friend from Colombia and I asked "how's your family back home?" referring to the virus... My friend went on a rant talking about Venezuelans who "are all prostitutes, have AIDS and Covid-19 and are ruining the lives of law-abiding Colombians". "Immigrants ruin everything because they lower wages", " the middle class it's been destroyed by them", "they bring drugs", etc.
Friendship is over! I can't stand the hypocrisy of an immigrant in the U.S.A. hating immigrants back home in Colombia!