BenjaminNicholas

Vaping....  Just like smoking, only somehow less attractive.

An overnight is perhaps different for every provider, but for most, it's 12-14 hours of time.
What happens during that time can be discussed.  That's for you to determine.
5-6 hours feels a bit abrupt.

There are different lines in the sand for different guys.  Always ask and make clear how far you're wanting to go.
For me, it means I get my ego AND dick stroked by showing off what I work hard for. 
Flexing, touching, squeezing, licking, etc. 
 

Yeah, you did the right thing.  Your escort is an immature shithead, unfortunately.
Always notify partners with these sorts of things.  Being a sexually active adult means occasionally having uncomfortable conversations.
Also- from strictly an STD standpoint- always know your status.  You can easily now schedule an STD panel online or through an app.  There's no more excuse.
 
 

You're basically asking a bunch of coke addicts how to get over a powder addiction  
But seriously, you either quit cold turkey or you talk to a professional who has experience with addiction and/or sexual addiction.
I've seen clients who had these proclivities and over time, I knew it breaking off the relationship was the only way I could move forward without someone's demise on my conscious.  A good escort knows great sex, but he knows the human condition and the way people think even better.
I hope you're on the right track and can continue in a healthy direction.
 

The ideal cornerstones are 'kind, intelligent and interesting'
What he can roleplay otherwise is what makes him a great escort.
Many escorts aren't cut out to be more than one-hour hires. 

The uptick in 'new' users asking very mature questions is noticeable.
When they don't get the reaction they want, they usually abandon the username and vacate.
The eagle eyes here will see through their bullshit pretty quickly (as evidenced by this thread).
 

Whatever the delivery system, just be direct:
'I want you to blow your load in my mouth'
Then, he can say sure or counter with what his limits are.
 

A massage is actually not a good thing when you're sick or getting sick.  It usually makes you feel worse.
https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/mind-and-body/massage-when-sick
I'd have preferred you cancel.  If you told me you were sick, I'd cancel on your behalf.
That he talked you into it says more about his need for money than his concern with his own health (and yours).

Banks tend to change their tune when you start doing business with them across multiple products.
It's all about building a strong relationship with them.  If you have a healthy portfolio of assets, they're not going to want to kill that.
It also helps to have multiple banks for multiple purposes.  Ranging from big boxes to small, private banks.  Each serve their purpose.
 
 

This.  100%.
If you take solid care of yourself, no one will know what your actual age is.  A lot of escorts live hard and it shows, which has always amazed me considering this is (initially) a looks-based business.  Smoking, sunshine and steroids always catch up with people in the end and it's usually not pretty.
However, shaving 10+ years off is no bueno.