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Am I horrible that I'm a voyeur and love watching? I would never go out of my way to spy on anyone but if someone is having sex within my immediate line of vision, I'm going to assume they either want to be seen or at least don't give a shit if they are seen. Either way, bonus for me.

Just donated. No idea what took me so long. This forum saved our ass when Robster was ill.

This is an excellent thread btw!

Could you forward to me also? He's incredibly handsome!

Oh man, I had the hots for him something fierce! Seen a picture of him online. The man has not aged well.

Shit, you mean there's a textbook for bottoms?

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What he said, I'm curious too

I was wondering if anyone had a chance to see this yet? It is opening this weekend in San Diego and I am considering dragging @Robster to go see it.

OMG! I would totally give up on massages!! LMAO!!

Hi all, as promised, here is as complete a report I can give. The event was amazing. After attending one, I can understand the need for discretion, not because of anything that happens there but as a courtesy to the participants. For a group such as this, the details may seem a bit tame; however, for someone such as myself, the summit was an amazing opportunity to be ourselves in a non judgemental environment. If you're looking for an orgy, this is definitely not the venue for you but if you're looking for an environment where you feel welcomed and accepted, you should definitely come to one of these events.

Thank you for the clarification , proof once again that communication is key. In regards to the issue at hand, I have no idea how big this client is but one thing I found to be helpful is a body scrub pad with a long handle to reach my back and other no so easily accessible areas. I would leave one in your shower for his next visit. Not sure how you would suggest to him to use it but maybe a few of the expert providers will weigh in. (no pun intended). Good Luck!

Thank you Monarchy79 and @rocky, I am a heavy guy myself and go out of my way to be squeaky clean and smell nice. [uSER=20442] @bendable2019[/uSER] I am unclear if you only have issues with heavy people who aren't clean or, as suggested by the thread title, heavy guys period. If it's the former, I think what Monarchy79 and others suggested is good advice regarding taken a shower together. If it's heavy people in general, which I can't help but feel it might be, then maybe put something in your ads hinting at the fact that you're looking for guys who are in shape. As a heavy client, I am annoyed by those words in an ad but I'd be a lot more angry if I hired you and I could tell you weren't into it. Finally, a bit of unsolicited advice that was told to me by a very wise and very successful escort: The best escorts can find something attractive in every single client. It might be thier looks, it might be their personality or it might be a tiny little detail that they can concentrate on but they find something to make the client feel like the escort is really into it. If you can't do that, then it'll show, both in your reviews and in the number of repeat customers. Just my 2¢

I will be happy to post a complete and unbiased report upon my return.

Lol, is that a good thing or a bad thing?

It looks like they tried to set one up on the east coast with little luck. I'm not sure where the 2017 one was held. I've registered for this one so here goes nothing.

Hmm, might have to scope it out for the team....

Our very own @Eric Hassan turned me onto BateWorld (what can I say, I live a sheltered life) and I noticed they are having a 'summit' next month near San Diego and it sounds kinda fun. Since I still have body image-issues, it could also prove therapeutic. Has anyone ever been to one? http://doctorrix.com/csummit/

Sorry you having such a shitty day but so glad you're going to make it! It would be an honor to buy you a drink.

I noticed he updated his Rentmen ad so I may check him out when I come back from this weekend. But for now, I will just have to spend the next four days surrounded by many other handsome escorts. Oh, the hardships one must endure. (and I do mean hard).

Wow, that would be a total dealbreaker for me if I had to worry about him feeling awkward for being seen with me. I'm sorry, I know escorts have their own lives but if I'm paying for his time, I want an escort who's going to make me feel like he would be proud to be seen with me.

What he said!

Umm, huh?

Canyon Club used to have one but took it out. All Worlds still has a sling in their playroom but I wouldn't really call it a dungeon.....or so I've been told.

I love that you still remember the good in him, even if he may have disappointed you. You always seem to focus on the good in people. In regards to Derek, I never met him but I wish him the best. Maybe this is a wake-up call for him to turn his life back around while he is still young.