Hey I get that totally, but I don’t think it’s so serious as you’re making it out to be. Nobody is perfect and from what I understand, because he did get a little personal with me, he has his own issues and life outside of doing this line of work (pretty sure he has a military background) So grace is deserved. If you choose to stay away that’s your choice, but if you want to spend a very nice evening with a (very) handsome man who is really sweet, I say go for it.