dadatristen

Thank you for sharing and it is beautifully written. It is sensual and even a little arousing, if I might say 😄 I think I would enjoy the process and the tantalizing sensation going with it. 

If that’s the rate for your city, and it fits your budget AND he’s reviewed highly on here, go for it. 
Go get naked on that massage table and enjoy the time. See what happens. Do it! 

If the masseur is hitting your hot spots, you’ll probably get an erection that the masseur will notice.  He may graze said erection with his hands when he turns you over and if he detects that you’re receptive—i.e. you don’t push him away—he’ll probably commence more serious stroking.  Though I’ve specified that I wanted a sensual massage, I’ve never had to verbally request a happy ending.  

Here's something I posted a few months ago that may be useful to you. Good luck--and ENJOY!
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Over many years, I've developed a sensitivity to allowing mutual touch to be, well, mutual. In other words, I try not to get grabby right off the bat, and allow myself to relax and let the masseur do what it is he does well. If I've chosen someone who has a good reputation and I like the way he describes his massage and I like his reviews and any communication with him, I'm intrigued to experience what HE does. I always try to choose someone who can combine therapeutic techniques with sensual and erotic touch. I try not to choose someone who is therapeutic only--OR someone who has no therapeutic skills at all and is using the massage as a means of finding escort clients. No offense to escorts--some of my best friends are or have been escorts. But I'm looking for guys who have developed their individual ways of combining massage with sensuality and eroticism.
So here's what I do--and what I DON'T do: I generally try NOT to grab and pull or interfere with his rhythm and technique. As he massages my back, I let my arms hang down the sides of the table, but I hold off touching his leg until he's done serious back and shoulder work. I just breathe into his touch. That creates a physical connection between us that is entirely in his control. It establishes that I respect him as a practitioner. And he of course can begin to "read" my body without his touch being overtly sexually charged. Once that mutual trust and respect has been established and he can see that he's got me moaning and groaning a little bit, I let my hand touch his leg. I might give it a little squeeze, but I definitely do NOT grab it--I still want HIM to be in control of where on my body he's touching me and how the massage progresses from therapeutic to to sensual. Relinquishing that kind of control is part of why I'm there. I try not to break the spell he is casting over me. I also try not touch his dick until he moves it near my hand. But once he does, I touch it and maybe hold it--but again, it's touching WITHOUT grabbing or breaking the mood. At this point he's probably massaging the inside of my thigh, maybe between my cheeks, maybe sliding his hand beneath my hips, maybe touching my balls and cock. If at that point he presses his crotch near my head, I might break the spell a little, raise my head and suck him--but just for a bit, again being careful NOT to signal that you want the massage to be over and all you want to do is cum and leave. Remember--he's not a trick and he's not just an escort--he's an erotic masseur. He's also a human being with a lot of joys and sorrows. And he's had experiences you can't even imagine. It's like a dance--but you have to let him lead. He can probably teach you a helluva lot about connecting physically, sensually, and erotically with another man. Whether it progresses further is up to the two of you. As they like to say on this board, your mileage may vary.  But if you travel far...tip accordingly.
All that to say that my advice is: Don't try to control it. Choose well. And allow yourself to let it happen. 

understood and thank you!

Thank you for the tip. That is a great idea. I am in the DC area, or DMV including Maryland and northern Virginia. I will greatly appreciate suggestions

Very good point 😆

I recommend finding a masseur that appeals to you on one of the sites and then doing a search here to see reviews from others.
Generally speaking, experiences with sensual masseurs can sometimes vary by client or even by day. 
having said that, if they are reviewed highly here, your chances are much higher to enjoy your time. 
 
the rates you quoted seem on the high end but major cities often cost more. 
 
good luck.