You were not disrespectful at all.
Of course I do consider always that possibility, and my assessment could be wrong. However, I do not think that is the issue. He actually wants to have sex more often that I do, we are just not the best match. We do not go out more often because we do not have an exclusivity arrangement, and I want my space. I do not live in a Mac mansion but in a 2BR, 1 Bathroom condo, I am sacrificing a lot of my privacy.
It feels like he is more into me than I am into him, but the gap is not enough to make the situation uncomfortable.