I am in NYC, and the only attraction gay bars had for me was the go-go boys... In my younger days it was easy to pickup guys in bars, NOT today I assume, withal the social media hooking up? And a 68 year old man perched on a barstool oogling and hoping for a younger connection is not a good look IMO.... Much easier to go to a sex club, where everyone is focused on one and the same thing... Hit it & Quit it !