Well that's how it usually is with May/December romances or if a boy is from another country and looking for the American dream. Often times older guys are so desperate for love and partnership they overlook the downfalls, especially if they are financially blessed. One just has to be savvy and recognize if/when they are being used and then make the decision to either break ties, or become the Bank of America... Actually all the power is in the elders' hands here, so he just needs to use it wisely... PS..Good Luck @Unicorn