I am truly puzzled here.... @Unicorn , you say your beau is a young Latino guy, and your relationship is relatively New, yet you only have sex with him 2 times a week, and jerk off the rest of the time ? something wrong with that picture, at least for me, because I too was in a 23 year relationship with a latino guy, and THAT scenario wouldn't fly with him. HE was a daily sex kinda guy, and always said " why j.o. when you can give IT to me" ? Maybe if you amp up the sex with HIM, you can cut down on the need for the Bounty.?