@sam.fitzpatrick , thank you for your reply and perspective.... For me, my decision to NEVER bottom didn't come from lack of trying...YES, I did try but NEVER enjoyed it. The feelings you get in #1, I experience from ORAL, and while I do experiment with NEW things often, bottoming is off my bucket list, and being a power bottom was never on it, so I guess I'm good ? I suppose the point is, do what you like and enjoy, and have fun. I used to feel guilty for not wanting to bottom, and these days I realize I am limiting my sex partner pool since most guys want seem to want Anal with the use of PREP so widespread, but I don't feel guilty anymore. Give me a BIG, thick dick to suck, and I'm as happy as any power bottom out there. :p:D