While I agree with everything you said here, I am afraid since the OP is so consumed with Sex, that IF he has a pleasurable, knock his socks off experience with a hire, he might get "hooked" into a habit he cannot afford, and perhaps forego his "necessities" for his "pleasure"....? We ALL know how aDicktive this hobby can be ?
I am not quite sure, from reading his posts that this OP has his "priorities" str8 ?