I have been rejected many, many times for my size in sex clubs and hookups, and initially felt bad about it, but then I realized I actually do the same thing. Although I will never verbally "size shame" someone, but if they approach me at a sex club or baths and are less than "lenghty & girthy", I will turn em away. I know what I want and I like what I like.... So when it happen to ME, I just have to remember that other people like what they like and want what they want as well.....God Bless everyone !