I think for many that havent attended (like myself) and might be considering it, the perception is that its an event for "beautiful" people, young, great bodies, huge cocks etc...... And I totally understand and respect anonymity, i do, but perhaps if there was some way of showing perspectives that all types of men attend, it would make them feel more secure and confident about attending ?
There was a pic posted by David-SF of the tree planting at the recent event, that should the "backs" of several members, and to that point showed that most were just "average" guys with average bods, and that was reassuring, and should encourage others who have seen the pic to re-assess what they thought.