Its 2021, so lets drop the "feminizing" stigma crap. Makeup, polish, earrings, ALL of it are symbols of a relaxed attitude towards self expression and individuality. If you LIKE it, DO IT/ WEAR it.
And if you dont like it, FINE, but allow others to enjoy it without judgement. Its not affecting your life, so simply internalize your dislike and get on with YOUR life.
I enjoy it, and think its sexy even on Morgxn Thicke.