scottkn422

I was not abused and has a totally regular sex life but that stuff turns me on. If you want to blame someone blame Disney for having all those hunky guys in bondage. This is a kink shame generalization that isn't even accurate. It can be for SOME people but not the majority.

It was not right FOR YOU. 
It was based in abuse FOR YOU. 
That's certainly not the case for everyone.
Don't paint with too-wide a brush. It never tends to end well.
 

Rape fantasy is pretty common and simulated rape is very hot. Make sure you have a safe word or another means of interrupting a scene if things get too rough (which is okay to do). Actually being raped, not so much, doesn't matter how hot the rapist is.

Extremely impatient. Blocked me when I didn’t want to meet that night.