MPF_1966

It is the nature of human relationships. I saw an escort on and off for three years. The sex was amazing and even got better until it stopped getting better. After a while, the chemistry was just not there anymore. Still I often recommend him highly when I see 411 requests on the forum because three years of fantastic sex is worth recommending.

There is a recent thread about adreamtop. Looks like a fraud. There are three ads all of which appear to be using the same pictures. From what I have read, I would stay away.

There is a recent thread about adreamtop. Looks like a fraud. There are three ads all of which appear to be using the same pictures. From what I have read, I would stay away.

That torso covered with red fur calls out to me.

Every regular on this site has heard me repeat over and over again “different stokes for different folks. The same is true here. Some clients thrive on the excitement of new hires while other revel in repeats. The two experiences are very different and probably appeal to very different clients.
 
Speaking for myself I greatly enjoy the experience of getting to know the guys I hire and developing a relationship/friendship with them. Everything evolves including sexual experiences and I derive great pleasure from that evolution. I have been seeing one escort for fifteen years (guess who) and our sex today is very different than it was when we first started seeing each other. It isn’t less exciting it is just different. In long term relationships whether social friendship or in hiring escorts I firmly believe it is as much my responsibility as the other persons to maintain the relationship. Over time we learn what turns the other partner on and for me that expands the sexual experience to another level.
 
Do I continue to hire new guys -- of course! Something a little different now and then is exciting. Do I enjoy the thrill of the unknown – of course! I am, for example, meeting a totally new guy tomorrow evening. Am I excited about meeting him – of course! Will I continue to get together with him – who knows? Yet even enjoying the above I know that I will continue to return to my two or three long established regulars – it is lots of fun knowing, in advance, which buttons rev our motors.

I think another part of this dynamic is service providers who have no plan, and the malaise that happens when after a while one's life feels like its drifting. If you've got the right looks and personality, escorting is an easy field to enter, the big question is what will you do next. Although I miss one guy I saw regularly who has moved on -- Derrick from DC, I hope that it is because he's doing something better with his life. He was escorting to pay for school, that should be done now, and hopefully he's off to the races.
 
Don't mean to sound judgmental in using the term "better." For the right person, who's got other interests in his life, this could be a longer term gig that is the best fit. Rich Reynolds, for example, told me he escorts because he wants to travel and buy expensive toys like motorcycles, and he hates the idea of 9 to 5 structure. So escorting is an empowering means to an end, and that makes sense to me. Another guy I've seen a few times has a full fledged career as a nurse, but is clearly a thrill seeker. He's in his 30s, intelligent, and has brought new energy to each of our encounters, so I figure it must be working for him. In contrast I've met a couple other guys for whom escorting seems like treading water until they meet someone to take care of them. I always get a little sad when I feel that vibe.
 
Sorry, meandering as I think out loud. Back to our regularly scheduled programming...

It is the nature of human relationships. I saw an escort on and off for three years. The sex was amazing and even got better until it stopped getting better. After a while, the chemistry was just not there anymore. Still I often recommend him highly when I see 411 requests on the forum because three years of fantastic sex is worth recommending.

It is the nature of human relationships. I saw an escort on and off for three years. The sex was amazing and even got better until it stopped getting better. After a while, the chemistry was just not there anymore. Still I often recommend him highly when I see 411 requests on the forum because three years of fantastic sex is worth recommending.

It is the nature of human relationships. I saw an escort on and off for three years. The sex was amazing and even got better until it stopped getting better. After a while, the chemistry was just not there anymore. Still I often recommend him highly when I see 411 requests on the forum because three years of fantastic sex is worth recommending.

It is the nature of human relationships. I saw an escort on and off for three years. The sex was amazing and even got better until it stopped getting better. After a while, the chemistry was just not there anymore. Still I often recommend him highly when I see 411 requests on the forum because three years of fantastic sex is worth recommending.

It is the nature of human relationships. I saw an escort on and off for three years. The sex was amazing and even got better until it stopped getting better. After a while, the chemistry was just not there anymore. Still I often recommend him highly when I see 411 requests on the forum because three years of fantastic sex is worth recommending.

It is the nature of human relationships. I saw an escort on and off for three years. The sex was amazing and even got better until it stopped getting better. After a while, the chemistry was just not there anymore. Still I often recommend him highly when I see 411 requests on the forum because three years of fantastic sex is worth recommending.

easygoingpal, can you elaborate? Or you can PM me. Thanks

Well he has to earn a living some how.

I hired him for my birthday last week, and I was very happy. PM if you want details.

I saw him this week and would recommend. I would maybe rate him a 7 or 8 out of 10. PM if you'd like details.

I am never a fan of ads that say "ask me" in the sexual orientation question.

I want very badly to take the jump; the man is simply beautiful. I've got this thing with guys, not just escorts, who are "open" or "willing" to do something versus actually "enjoying" it. I think I'd rather lust from afar and keep the fantasy alive.

I am never a fan of ads that say "ask me" in the sexual orientation question.

With escorts, I always assume they may have HIV and hope I am wrong. That way I avoid unnecessary risks.

With escorts, I always assume they may have HIV and hope I am wrong. That way I avoid unnecessary risks.

Only five threads? Sheesh.

In the end I find it always comes down to chemistry. I have had the occasional bad time with a well reviewed escort and have had regular mind blowing sex with escorts who have not always gotten the best reviews. Having said that, forum members have usually steered me in the right direction.

In the end I find it always comes down to chemistry. I have had the occasional bad time with a well reviewed escort and have had regular mind blowing sex with escorts who have not always gotten the best reviews. Having said that, forum members have usually steered me in the right direction.

In the end I find it always comes down to chemistry. I have had the occasional bad time with a well reviewed escort and have had regular mind blowing sex with escorts who have not always gotten the best reviews. Having said that, forum members have usually steered me in the right direction.