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Are you looking in the right places? There’s a lot of non studio massage films on sites like JustforFans and OnlyFans. Obviously mine is the best (forgive me the blatant self promotion) and I draw inspiration and encouragement from many other guys who also work as masseurs and make films with consenting partners. No studio fakery, just real guys making sensual massage videos. You’ll find mine here…..
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what's obvious is that it's just another cash grab with a misleading title.  Notice that there is not 1 single listing for "massage" in the topics or any pics showing massage or masseurs.  Just re labeling for the standard cam sites.  
I personally LOVE real massage video and wish there were some hot/fit providers who (with the permission of their partners) post real sensual massage sessions, not some glossy studio stuff 🙂
 

I can relate to this problem.  2 months ago, I hired someone that claimed to do deep bodywork and then the classic thing happened of a mediocre massage and then wanting to tug and get paid.  I likely didn't vet enough and was going on reviews.  But it's tough.  I only see three guys now and two of them are only travel masseurs.  It sucks that you have to hire the frogs to get to the prince.  I will say that if someone is just flat out bad enough, I will tell them the session is not working for me and pay them for their pro rated time and leave.  Not the most comfortable situation, but someone has to let them know they shouldn't be advertising as massage therapists.  They should be on the escort sites, but I don't think they want to because they charge more to advertise.
Massage is a bit of a relative experience.  Some guys think a hot guy that does mediocre massage is the best massage ever and will leave a 5 star review.  It's a drag. So please promote the guys that are good because of their skill not because they are hot.  Looks are obvious, but true skill is harder to find.  And when i need deep massage, my body really needs it.

I could have written the OP myself. 
I started hiring in the late 90s / early 2000s, when there seemed to be an embarrassment of riches - the hottest, experienced guys of all ages, providing a good massage with fun added in,  for a fair rate.
Something turned in the late 2010s (IMO), right before the pandemic. That's when I noticed an invasion of the new providers 'working' in their own reality: you meet at the appointed time (if you're lucky), he will strip down to his shorts (they consider that being fully naked for an erotic massage), and then they squirt cold baby oil over you and rub it on your back with one hand, while they're texting with the other. (None of this was mentioned in their ad). If they're doing this while standing in front of me or on my side, this is when I manage to reach over and start pulling down their underwear, and they're usually ok with it. Flip over on your back and they will fondle your dick (but nothing sensual to get you erect) for about three minutes, and then they tell you the appointment is over (40 minutes out of 60). When you remind them you still have 20 minutes, suddenly there's a misunderstanding which doesn't exist when it's time to pay. 
Something is totally out of whack.
Now would be a great time to reboot the 'agencies' of yesteryear (before RentMen and RentMasseur took over)  where the providers are screened, and you're nearly 100% certain you will get what you're looking for. Hiring off the sites (where anyone can post anything they want to attract a client) is a big gamble these days. 
Just my opinion. 

LOL. The really good masseurs are totally booked, and not looking for clients who tend to complain a lot, or split hairs over the most inconsequential details.

Feel free to check with him, but when I checked he apologized for having that photo on his page. He says the photo was taken at the home of a client. Also, to contact him you have to use email. A real pain. If you're gonna be in Seattle, I'd strongly recommend this guy. He's $$$ but definitely worth it.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41037/

I wonder what Lindsey Graham (aka Lady G) thinks about this.

I got the email too. This is not about RentMasseur responding to client confusion over sensual vs erotic services. It’s certainly a real concern and many of you have hit the nail on the head saying there is no standard regarding sensual or erotic. Fine. That’s the official story.
This is sadly just one symptom of many, like Visa blacklisting adult businesses, and PornHub responding to crazy new laws requiring adults to fork over their privacy to view adult content by no longer offering access in those states.
The real problem is how people in the United States publicly treat sex work. Plenty of us privately respect and enjoy it, but publicly decry its very existence.
We will only see more of this behavior until the majority of our society supports policies that acknowledge sex work as work and sex workers as dignified members of society with the right to offer services to meet the most basic and universal of human needs.
Also, human trafficking is not synonymous with all sex work, as many argue and believe. If we were safe enough to be more open about sex work services, it would be a lot easier to identify and prosecute human trafficking.

I couldn’t agree more. Prices up and quality down. If they don’t have a table I don’t go. It’s quite alarming when they want 250 but don’t have the skills and value to back it up. I’m happy to pay when the quality and experience are there, but that’s hard to consistently find. Maybe that’s why I like the thrill of the hunt haha. I always appreciate all of your advice @7829V 🙌

Lately, I’ve been feeling pretty over the whole hiring-a-masseur thing. Prices keep climbing, but the quality? Falling faster than my patience! Most guys don’t even have the basics down—you could hand them a YouTube tutorial, and they’d level up instantly, but it feels like even that’s too much effort.
So, I’m hiring less and less these days. The options are slim, and a lot of masseurs don’t even bother with a proper table or decent lotions. I mean, I’m here for a massage with sensual elements, not some budget-level improv session.
But honestly, I think part of the blame is on us. If a masseur throws in some extras like oral or more, they’re showered with 5-star reviews and clients happily fork over whatever they charge. It’s like we’ve traded actual massage skills for... extracurriculars. And here I thought I was booking a massage, not a game of ‘how far will it go.