I see a Registered Massage Therapist who is gay, like myself. I wear underwear - he is clothed. Draping with sheets - not even close to anything sensual. He always leaves the room when I change and I get under the sheet. I hired a masseur from Rentmasseur when the RMT was out of town and I expected something different. First off, not registered, so no insurance coverage. I got a sense when talking to him he was trying to maybe figure me out, what I would want. I just talked about sore back and shoulders. I wore underwear. I think he said I could take it off, and I said I would leave it on - no awkwardness or anything. He massaged me wearing tight boxer brief underwear. Second massage with him, I thought' what the hey' and I was naked. So we was naked. No extra services.
He was straight, mentioned his girlfriend, and a really nice guy. Looking back on it, I think I really appreciate his people skills - he knew what I wanted and didn't want. I remember thinking 'I get it. I wear underwear, he wears underwear. I get naked, he gets naked.'
I was very isolated at the time, not active sexually. I remember when I paid him and he was standing there naked next to me, I thought this is nice. Didn't need extras it felt good just be around this good looking guy.